First cases can be hard stress wise, making us forget minute but important stuff like that, totally understandable in my first case I was so nervous that I forgot to take client vitals and took it only after history taking
You still had such a smooth and awesome session, and I remember sir praising you a lot for your calmness, makes me super curious about you and jelly of the client that got to open up and heal in such a lucky environment
Can you suggest the proper question or line to do the same sir?
Like “allow yourself to use your breath to connect with this feeling of fear, and allow it come to your awareness why you may be feeling so/what may be causing you to feel this way/fear as I count from 3 to 1” or something?
Like “using your next (deep?)breath allow yourself to connect with what follows next “ Or something?
Like “I understand your feelings and what you must be going through, using your breath allow yourself to connect with what follows next” Or something?
Like “(I understand what you must have gone through emotionally to make that decision?), use your breathe to connect deeply with what happens after you enter the jungle, (how are you feeling? ) “ Or something? The bracket lines are extra lines I added but am not sure if it’s needed to be added
I did not understand what you meant by “let it unfold in auto mode”
Could you explain what correction you wanted in her suggestion of letting that guilt and rejection dissolve? What could she have said or not said instead?
Oooh are you saying maybe let client feel the guilt n stuff cuz as she is reliving the source of the themes memory, she will herself heal by releasing those emotions after finally knowing, and ask forgiveness needed for healing while doing the endogenic thingy? And that’s why client does not need direct suggestion of therapist to do the same as it happens naturally by remembering, releasing and resolving?
One of my client was still so conflicted that for some questions I had to cook up a whole story for describing an incident and then asking as the person living that incident what action she would take that made her immediately jump to a conclusion
And sometimes there would be funny instances where the option would be ‘prefer audio book / to be read to ‘ or something and coincidentally I would be the one reading the options to them cuz they preferred oral method instead of them visually seeing and selecting themselves