She is an amazing woman. Always smiling and loving ![]()
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As she learned later on in the session that ‘Pain is life, there’s no escape’ so she learned how to channelize her pain into healing. Instead of constant complaints she is trying new ways to deal with it and get better physically and spiritually as well.
She is the chosen one, blessed to have encountered the divine grace and I got a few drops of nectar too ![]()
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Harmeet… this hit somewhere very deep.
What you said about women being “trained into silence” is a conditioning that just doesn’t disappear. It becomes a wound… and sometimes, unconsciously, it becomes a pattern that gets passed on.
Not because women are cruel at their core… but because they were never given a safe space to process their own suffering.
About “ women who adapted too well” feels so real…
Sometimes survival itself hardens the heart. And then strength gets confused with endurance of pain…. and compassion gets replaced by “I went through it, so you should too.”
But I feel….. this is not the whole truth of womanhood.
There is another side too…
Women who break the pattern, Women who choose softness without submission, Women who support instead of compete, Women who say
“ तुम्हें वो सब नहीं सहना पड़ा जो मैने सहा .”
And maybe that’s where healing begins.… When even one woman decides the cycle stops with me.
And
“औरत ही औरत की दुश्मन है”… yes, sometimes. But also..…
“औरत ही औरत की सबसे बड़ी healer भी बन सकती है.” ![]()
“Pain is life, there’s no escape”
on the surface sounds heavy…. almost harsh, but the way she received and transformed it… that’s where the real beauty lies.
What touched me most is that she is not stuck in the victim loop anymore.…
she is exploring, experimenting, trying.
This “trying” itself is such a big sign of healing in motion.
Also, somewhere it feels like she’s not just dealing with physical discomfort.… but also learning a deeper spiritual resilience almost like “if pain is inevitable, then let me make it meaningful.”
Beautiful work, truly.
And the way you held space for her to reach this understanding..…shows.![]()
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You met with her is a blessing for you Harmeet ![]()
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Yes true that! Sometimes women do help other women but mostly the helping hand is also tied and tangled up in so many limitations. It’s not they don’t want to help, it’s the lack of awareness they have or may be I can say their conditioning is like that. They can’t even have the thought of not obeying and going against the norms. Times are changing and I do see women supporting each other and relations are changing on a positive note. But the generational traumas they suffered will take time to go away and heal. Still women who get chances and opportunities in life don’t feel it’s their right, they just have a sigh of relief and think they are lucky or may be the privileged ones. That thought processing needs to change and it will take a long time to get there, but we are already headed in the right direction ![]()
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Yeah Supritee, meeting her indeed is a blessing ![]()
my life has transformed
no coincidences I guess, I was ready to heal myself as well ![]()
@sarithasurendramohan Thank you Saritha for such kind words
it means a lot to see that the energy behind the case study is felt deeply
I feel blessed and humbled to attain such divine grace ![]()
always grateful!