With the grace of God, Gohonon, our beloved Guru and Guruma, fellow Atlantians and siblings, I am bringing before you - my 3rd case
Case 3
Name – AAA
Age – 39yrs
Sex – Male
Hypnotisability Score – 4/10
VAK – 6/5/4
Dominant Sense – Kinaesthetic
Secondary Dominant - Visual
Eye Roll – 2+1
Session 1 – 29th October 16:00 – 18:00
Stage 1 – Introduction and CBM done
Stage 2 – Non Verbals – Somewhat uncertain & anxious. Apprehensive about PLR Process.
Stage 3 – Pre Induction talk done. PPT shown. Doubts cleared.
Stage 4 – Contract signed
Stage 5 – Client Assessment Done
Session 2 : 30th October 08: 45 – 12:10
Stage 6 - History Taking – Done.
Client follows Nichiren Buddhism for past 10yrs+.
Client is Shri Hanuman Bhakt and regularly visits Hanuman temple every Tuesday for past many years.
Client had a happy childhood. Client has an elder sister. Client’s father passed away in Feb 2005. He was very close to his father.
Post childhood client developed fear before any major event/decision making time and gets irritated (develops anger) and has a tendency to close/finish off the event somehow.
Client got married in March 2014. The marriage too happened amidst a fiasco. He couldn’t marry the girl whom he liked (in the realm of arranged marriage). He had to marry a girl whom he didn’t love that much. He had to marry to please others in the family. Ultimately it ended in separation and got divorced few months back.
Client had suffered a heart attack in 2017 and has severe digestion problem.
Client is hesitant to take decision on his own and many a times have serious disagreement with his mother. However, he usually doesn’t go against his mother for emotional reasons (Mother shouldnot think that since her husband is no more, her son doesn’t respect/listen to her). This makes the client irritated and sometimes goes against the mother and takes some decisions.
Client is comfortable in a beach as well as a mountain. Client confirms that he is able to visualize and is not afraid of anything specific. However, client feels that if he deviates from a certain specific path like dinner exactly at the same time, improper food etc then he will fall sick.
Stage 7 – Relaxing the Cognitive Fatigue – Took a break for 20mins.
Session 3 :
Date : October 30th, 2023
Duration : 12:30 to 14:45
Stage 8 – Theme Finalisation.
Client wanted to explore the genesis of having fear before taking any decision.
He also wanted to explore the reason for anger.
Client doesn’t want to explore any other theme but specifically fear.
Hence “Fear” was chosen as the main theme.
Initial Pain Level – Client was reluctant to fix any pain level
Stage 9 : Check List
Gone through all the stages again. Repeated about PLR and expectations - concept of IMR, trance, life between lifes, masters, soul guides etc.
Stage 10 : Induction (70 mins)
Dave Elman and Progressive Relaxation.
Stage 11 – Visualisation
Ball of light was used as Visualisation technique. Client confirmed that he could visualize during pre talk, So we proceeded with ball of light and the colour of light was white.
Stage 12 - Regression
Then led to a garden and from garden to cliff.
In the cliff done reframing of present life traumas upto womb.
Client felt very light after reframing.
Brought back Client to bench in Garden and then emerged as per protocol.
Session 4 :
Date : 30th October 2023
Duration : 16:30 – 20:25
Stage 10 to Stage 12 repeated
Induction – Dave Elman + Progressive Relaxation – 80mins
Visualisation – Ball of Light – 25mins
Then from Garden to Cliff.
T : This is what the therapist said.
C : This is what the client said.
T : In front of you, there is a beautiful bridge leading to the other side of the cliff. Are you able to see it.
C : Yes
T : Very Good. As you start walking on the bridge and reach the far end of the cliff on the bridge, on the count of 3-2-1, you may find yourself in the life time, when the fear enveloped you for the first time. 3-2-1
What do you feel and see.
C : Very dark. Cant see anything.
T: Please move and feel around if you can find any doors or windows.
C : Nothing
T : Can you see yourself. What are you wearing.
C : I don’t know.
T : Is it day or night.
C : Night.
T : What dress are you wearing.
C : I cannot see myself.
T : In front of you there is a mirror. Please look into it and tell me what you see.
C : I see a swami in the mirror. He is wearing gerua clothes and has a crooked smile.
T : What is it that he is conveying to you.
C : Nothing. Just smiling.
T : You may ask him what he is trying to convey to you.
C : He is smiling wickedly……………. I don’t like him.
T : You may call your soul guide to help you to understand what the swami is trying to convey…
C : He has gone. As soon as I called my soul guide, the swami vanished.
T : (After waiting for sometime), what is the soul guide telling you.
C : He has left.
T : Do you feel anyone else is present.
C : (After sometime…) No. No one is here.
T : Okay. At the count of 3-2-1, you will find yourself at the next significant event of this life time. 3-2-1
What do you see or feel
C : I see a ship.
T : What kind of ship is it?
C : It is a passenger ship.
T : Are you on the ship.
C : Im in the water. The ship is over me
T : Who else is with you
C : No one. It seems I fell down from the ship.
T : Is any one there to save you
C : Few people are watching me. Few people are in the water to save me. There is a girl wearing a skirt also looking down.
T : Do you recognize any of the people.
C : No
T : Please try to look at their eyes and try to recognize them.
C : (After some time), no I cannot recognize.
T : What is your name
C : (After some time….) I don’t know
T : What year it is.
C : I don’t know.
T : At the count of 3-2-1, the year will flash in front of your eyes. 3-2-1
C : (After some time) It seems 1975
T : Which place it is
C : It is somewhere in Equador.
T : What do you feel. How did you fell down. Did somebody push you.
C : (after some pause) I was drinking and slipped.
T : At the count of 3-2-1, you may go to the last moment of this life time. 3-2-1
What do you see.
C : Im in water.
T : Please look around, you will find your soul guide.
Please ask him the message for this life time.
C : I see my soul guide.
He is telling me to be Pavitra.
(Since Master was here, I I was thinking whether intrude and clarify the meaning of Pavitra, when the client himself responded)
Pavitra means not have drink and non veg.
(After a good pause, I enquired whether Master is still present and the answer was negative)
T : Now at the count of 3-2-1, lets go to another life time from where your feeling of fear started prior to any decision making. 3-2-1…….What do you see
C : I see a big office building. There are many people going and coming. I also see a girl in skirt.
T : Is it the same girl from the ship, in previous life time.
C : I don’t know.
T : At the count of 3-2-1, you will go inside the office and will be sitting in front of the girl. 3-2-1
C : Im in a big conference room. At one end, Im sitting and at the other end the girl with skirt is sitting.
T : What type of feeling you are getting – fear, love, respect, anger….
C : Neutral.
T : Can you recognize the girl – is she somebody from this life time.
C : No
T : You may look into the eyes and try to recognize her.
C : (After sometime) No.
T : Any discussion happening between you two.
C : (After sometime) The girl now put her feet on the table and relaxing. I think she is my boss.
T : What type of feeling you are getting when you are so close to this girl.
C : (after a long pause) Im happy. Im relaxed.
T : At the count of 3-2-1, you may go to the next significant event of this life time.
C : Im at a stadium. A cricket match going on. Im sitting with other spectators (later client confirmed that it was an old stadium, unlike today’s stadium with very less crowd and he was quite young…around 12-13yrs old). The sitting arena was collapsing and his left arm got broken (fractured).
T : (After waiting for sometime). What do you feel.
C : My left arm is paining. Im getting up on my own. Not much injury to others.
T : Who else is with you.
C : No one.
T : (after some pause) At the count of 3-2-1, you may go to the next significant event of this life time
C : I see a train.
T : Who else is with you.
C : My wife and my son.
T : Do you recognize your wife and son.
C : My wife is the girl with skirt and I cannot recognize my son.
T : What is the feeling that you get, being with your family.
C : Happy feeling. Harmonious family.
T : Do you see or feel anybody in the train whom you recognise.
C : No
T : Where are you going
C : Home.
T : Okay. Now at the count of 3-2-1, please go to the next significant event of this life time from where fear has emerged. 3-2-1. What do you see.
C : The big office building has burned down.
T: Where are you? Are you inside the building?
C : No. Im outside the building and watching. I have a big car and a driver.
T : Do you recognize the driver.
C : (After some pause)….No
T : Why you are feeling upset at the burning of this building.
C : Im the owner of this building.
T : Whats your age.
C : Im around 38yrs
There are 4 men in dangdi (Maintenance Engg workwear). One of them made a mistake because of which the building got burnt.
T : Do you recognize those people. Pl look into their eyes.
C : (After some time) No.
T : Was it a sabotage or a genuine mistake.
C : It was negligence.
Since client was not able to recognize anybody in any of the lifetimes, I decided to take him to a happy moment in childhood with parents if he can recognize somebody
T : At the count of 3-2-1, you will go to your childhood in this lifetime, where you are having dinner with your parents and siblings. 3-2-1. What do you see.
C : There is a huge dining table. A father like figure is sitting at top of the table. On left side there are many children. Im one of them (later client confirmed that there were 5 children, all siblings). No one on the other side.
T : Can you recognize any body. Look into their eyes.
C : (After sometime) No.
T : what about your mother
C : Don’t know.
T : How do you feel having dinner with everybody
C : Happy and joyful.
T : (after some pause) Okay. Now at the count of 3-2-1, you will go the last moment of this lifetime, just before your death. 3-2-1. What do you see.
C : Im in the ship. It’s a party going on. I have thrown the party.
The ship is burning.
The ship is standstill and its got fully burnt.
T : What happened to you.
C : I have died.
T : How did you die?
C : I fell into the water.
T : Did anybody come to save you.
C : five people came to save me but they couldn’t. Few people were looking down from deck.
T : Please look around. You will find your soul guide.
Please ask him what is the lesson from this lifetime
C : He is telling that I should know swimming.
T : What else is he telling.
C : Nothing
(after some time, once ascertaining that soul guide has left)
T : At the count of 3-2-1, you will go to the next significant lifetime.
C : Im at a beach. Miami Beach. Year is 1641.
T: What you are doing?
C : Im surfing. Suddenly a surfer while surfing, his razor sharp board comes in front of my face and there is a huge cut. Im bleeding. People have taken me to the hospital.
T : Are you badly hurt.
C : There are 5 stitches on my face
T : Is any of your family member around
C : Yes. My mother.
T : Can you recognize her.
C : No
T : How do you feel in presence of your mother
C : Safe
T : (after some time) Okay. You may go to the last moment of this lifetime, just before your death.
What do you see.
C : Nothing. I cannot see myself.
T : Okay. Look around. You will find your soul guide.
C : Silent for about a minute.
T : Is your soul guide there?
C : Yes
T : Who is your soul guide.
C : Hanumanji.
T : Please convey my namaskar and pronam to Hanumanji. You may be with Hanumanji for as much time as you want. You may ask all your queries to him and get appropriate guidance. Im waiting for you. When you are done, please lift your fore finger indicating that your meeting is over.
(after about 5 minutes client raised his forefinger)
(after confirming that hanumanji has left)
T : Do you have answers to all your queries
C : Yes
T : Would you like to explore any other theme.
C : No
T : Would you like to emerge?
C : Yes
The client was emerged after taking him back to garden and bench, as per protocol.
Stage – 13 Integration
Client had asked his soul guide, Lord Hanumanji, about his problems and fear in life. He was told because of anadar (disrespect) to his parents he is facing such problems in life.
When he asked that in this life time he has been respectful, client was told that they are being disrespected.
He was told not to use his mind or judge his mother, when taking decision which involves discussion with parents. Instead of arguing and going against mother, it needs to be explained in a very delicate and respectful manner.
He suggested to do Bhajan (by showing both his hands in kirtan/Bhajan mode), give alms to poor.
The client was also told to roar like a lion and not be timid and fearful. (Soul guide actually demonstrated by roaring)
Stage 14 – Closure
On discussion , the client agreed that he needs to be more respectful to his mother and not show anger/irritation.
He also got the way out to his problems and challenges – Doing Bhajan and Kirtans and be fearless, giving alms to the needy and poor.
Stage 15 : Report and Recommendation.
Client was told to observe dreams and thoughts for next few weeks.
Client was told to do Hanuman Chalisa in the morning as well as in the evening and chant abundant daimoku.