(Transformation Story) TS: In a crowd of people at home, Anand was the 3rd child, not having self-denial from childhood. At home, nobody used to pay attention to him. Mother, as a homemaker, is always busy with the household chaos and raising all 5 kids at the same time. Father was the least bothered about the children. As a boy at home, they always pressured him to go into engineering. He opted for something but now has guilt for not listing parents; he never went into engineering. He was ok with all treatment, and he never raised his voice, because nobody was paying attention to him. The first time he felt warmth was when his cousin brother got married and Bhabhi (Shobha) came to his house, asked about his likes in food, and many other things, like what he liked to eat (as the client was a foodie, he remembered it). He was 12 or 13 years old at that time. The love and care that he encountered were something different from what he usually received from others, not siblings or parents, he said. They used to share all the ups and downs happening in their lives. Only Shobha was supportive at the time when he decided not to pursue engineering; others (family) declared him mad. Next, at the time of marriage, she is the only one saying no to the marriage after watching the girl, while others were just treating it like one more marriage.
He got married in the month and got battered with lots of abuses by Kirti, his wife… was least bothered and blamed for having an affair with Shobha (Bhabhi), whether the blame and abuses came from karmic debt or there was a different line of action that was revealed in the session…whether Anand is looking at his loneliness as a curse or a blessing…
CS
Name: Changed (Anand, aged 46)
Theme: Detached from parents and siblings, early divorce (in a month)
Pain Level on scale: From 8/10 to 0/10
DS: kinaesthetic → Auditory
VAK: 3/8/4
ERT: 3/4
Day->1 Session 1 (June 6, 2026; 7 pm - 10:30 pm)
History Taking. (Stage 1 to Stage 6)
The client is a middle-aged man who was born and raised in a small town and currently works at an IT company in a Tier-II city.
He has always felt emotionally detached from his parents, despite living with them. He reports having little or no emotional connection with either his mother or father. At the same time, he feels a very strong emotional bond with his Bhabhi (sister-in-law), who is seven years older than him.
His parents arranged his marriage. Although he describes his wife as very beautiful, he states that she was careless and emotionally indifferent toward him. According to the client, she presented herself positively in front of his family, but her behavior toward him in private was very different. He reports that she was not serious about the relationship from the very beginning. Within a month of the marriage, he alleges that she subjected him to various forms of emotional abuse, filed for divorce, and accused him of having an inappropriate relationship with his Bhabhi. He also states that his parents and siblings did not support him during this difficult period, whereas his Bhabhi stood by him. As a result, the couple separated within a month of their marriage, and he is now living alone.
The client recently learned about Past Life Regression (PLR) and wishes to explore the reason behind the deep emotional bond he shares with his Bhabhi. He emphasizes that he has never had any inappropriate or romantic intentions toward her. Instead, he wants to understand why he feels such a strong emotional connection with her and whether there is a deeper reason for this bond.
At the beginning of the session, the client expressed that he was very eager to understand why he had always felt emotionally detached from his parents and siblings and to explore whether the roots of these feelings lie in his past. He shared that, while growing up as the third or fourth among five siblings, he often felt neglected. According to him, either the elder or the younger siblings received more attention from the family, while he frequently felt overlooked. He recalls that his opinions were rarely heard, and he often felt lonely, unimportant, and emotionally isolated. He believes that his Bhabhi was the first person in his life who genuinely listened to him, valued him, and made him feel emotionally supported and important.
Trigger: After marriage, when blamed by his wife on his sister-in-law and his relationship
• Feeling emotionally neglected, unwanted, or unimportant; disconnected from parents.
• Loneliness and emotional isolation.
• Fear of rejection and abandonment.
• Longing for love, acceptance, and emotional security.
• Feeling valued only by one person (Bhabhi).
We decided to conduct the session the next day.
Day 2 Session 2. (June 7th 2026, 11:00 AM to 12:30 PM)
We did a prayer and revisited Stage 7, reaffirming the theme. This time, he said, can we change the theme from “Detached from parents and siblings, early divorce to 'Self-denial '? I felt at the time of History taking that it can be focused on self-denial, agreed upon and continued from Stage 9.
Induction (Dave Elman), Progressive Relaxation, Staircase, Garden (safe place), Happy Memories.
HM:
Anand did not notice any calendar or other indicators of the date or year. He was simply standing in the garden. When asked if he liked to play, he responded, “No.”
When asked if he wished to remain, the client perceived his mother as present.
Mother was sitting in the dining/sitting room of the house. He reported feeling good, happy, and light; the client perceived it to be daytime, approximately between 3:00 PM and 4:00 PM.
He identified the place as the garden of his house and initially stated that only he and his mother were present. Later, he clarified that his mother was inside the house while he was in the garden. He was standing in the garden. He reported wearing only a baniyan (vest) and shorts. Anand was unable to see his hands or feet when asked to observe them. He could see the garden and the dining scene for a while; the client replied, “Yes.” He expressed that he felt happy in this environment.
So, encouraged him to remain in the pleasant scene, absorb the positive feelings, and carry the sense of happiness and lightness with him.
The SE are the life experiences that contributed to or reinforced these emotional themes.
- Growing up as the 3rd or 4th among five siblings and feeling overlooked.
- Feeling that parents gave more attention to the elder or younger siblings.
- Feeling unheard and emotionally disconnected during childhood.
- Developing a strong emotional bond with his Bhabhi, who listened to and supported him.
- An arranged marriage that broke down within one month.
- Experiencing emotional abuse during the marriage (as reported by the client).
- Divorce proceedings and allegations regarding his relationship with his Bhabhi.
- Lack of support from parents and siblings during the marital conflict.
- Receiving consistent support only from his Bhabhi.
Living alone after the separation.
KMF / CF :
T: She’s alone. Did you go with your Bhabhi to this garden, or did she just come alone
C: (No, I can only see her face.)
T: Not the body? (in LBL)
On count of 1 to 3, let’s walk from the garden ……. to explore the life span where you can find the situation where the current life issue is connected.
From the trance, he slipped to a lifespan………..where he is moving towards the cave
C: No, now I’m moving to the cave.
T: Okay.
C: Cave… (silent for some time)….. There is a lot of fire.
T: Okay.
C: And some metal. And? Red hot metal.
T: Okay, can you explain a little bit about this place?
C: It’s a furnace.
T: Furnace.
C: Furnace.
T: Okay.
C: And it’s very hot and full of red-hot metal.
T: Okay. What are you doing there?
C: Nothing. I can only see this.
T: You can only see that scene?
C: Yes.
T: What’s your name?
C Anand
T: What is this furnace all about?
C: It’s metal.
T: Okay.
C: It’s a red-hot metal.
T: Okay. Can you see your face now?
C: No, I cannot.(he was watching from above )
C: No.
T: What else can you see around you?
C: Nothing now that the furnace is gone.
All was dark; he was unable to see anything. He said he is back to the gardens and now he is standing with her Bhabhi… where Bhabhi and niece (daughter of Bhabhi) are standing. He said to emerge, guided for emerging, and he emerged…
Day 2 → Session 3 (June 2026; 3:30 PM – 6: 30 PM)
We started with the Prayer to the Almighty.
Reviewed Theme for the session, Induction (Dave Elman), Progressive Relaxation, Staircase, Garden (safe place) as start asking about the garden ……..
He slipped into a trance and started explaining about the garden where we left the day, and now he is standing there with her Bhabhi only. This time, both were holding hands from there they went to the light, where they were coming down from the light to the sea beach, where the stairs were made up of stone. Again, her Bhabhi- and he was about 22, and Bhabhi is like 27years old, and they were walking on the beach, chit-chatting… Again, from there, they went to a village where Radha (Bhabhi) was swinging, and he was playing there under the tree. Again asked what relationship you both share, he said don’t know. Then from there he reached to home, where Radha was cooking food for him. She cooked besan, which, in general, he doesn’t like, but that day it was tasty, he said. Again, tried to explore the relationship, but he was always stating that they were not worried about anybody; they were never in any relationship, but they used to live together, holding hands, living together and growing old in that life span
T: Okay. Vishu, I just have one question, and then later on we can go. Are you comfortable now?
C: Yes.
T: So, you are growing old with Radha?
C: Yes.
T: What is your age now?
C: Fifty-two.
T: Okay, what about Radha?
C: Fifty-seven; now she is looking like fifty-seven.
T: Very nice. Is she growing old?
C: No.
T: Is she looking the same as she looked in the last significant time?
C: No, but she is very nice. She is very nice looking. She is very nice. Okay.
T: Where are you now? Vishu? Are you fifty-two? What else are you people doing
for your livelihood?
C: I don’t know.
T: No?
C: We are in a bigger house.
T: Can you explain this house now?
After a long silence- around 2-3 minutes- he started saying it’s much bigger than this house, she is wearing a white saree with Red border and we both are there holding hands…… It’s a WADA
C: It’s a Wada
T: It’s a? Wada.
C: It’s a Wada. Okay. (he jumped another lifespan.)
T: How does it look?
C: Very nice… I am tired… I want to sleep now.
T: Okay. Vishu, do one thing. Take a deep breath (want to make it a bit more relaxing so that at least complete the session).
T: Where is Radha now?
C: With me.
T: With you?
C: Yes.
T: Is Radha your soulmate?
Yes. Okay.
T: How do you feel when Radha is not going to be with you in this current situation
C: Very sad.
C: Very sad. Very sad.
T: As in this current lifetime, you have chosen to be apart from Radha.
T: What bond do you have with Radha?
C: Selfless bond.
T: Selfless?
C: Yes.
T: Is Radha your soul fragment?
C: Yes, a fragment of the soul that is separated in this current life.
T: You have chosen to live alone without Radha. Is it like that?
C: Yes.
T: Is that kind of connection?
C: Yes…………. I am feeling tired. Okay. I want to sleep now.
T: Okay. In count of three to one, I will let you go to sleep. But before that, I just want to know about the significance of the life where your Bhabhi was Radha, and you were Vishu.
Do you have any lessons learned in that life? What is your soul purpose in this life?
C: I don’t know.
T: So, you always want to be with Radha?
C: Yes.
T: Here also in this current life? Though she is your Bhabhi, but still you have all such kind
PD: In a different lifetime, they were together; in the current life, they are apart from each other.
LBL: Coming from the bright light. They both always hold their hands, coming from a bright higher level, walking down from the staircase light and coming down to near the sea beach, where she is always with her as a selfless lover and always holding her hands.
CO: In this lifespan, Vishu has decided to come alone, and Radha is her sister-in-law. They are apart from each other, but still, they have moral support and a strong understanding between them
Res: Not Documented.
PHS: Self-Denial, Fear of the death of the Bhabhi (had a dream that she died), Guilt(Not done engineering)
Outcome: The client reported that she found the answer; that’s why her Bhabhi is always standing for him, a selfless love and bond between them.
FU:
Practice relaxation daily to get clarity in life.
Meditate daily.
He is going to conduct a session to get rid of smoking, as he is unable to do so.
After the session, Anand was very content. and quiet. He spent time 1 hr after the session. Hardly talked, but he said he is feeling very light and relaxed, and after some time he is going to come for a session to get rid of smoking.
I tried to write the case as per the instructions given by Sir. If there are any mistakes, please forgive them, and if there are any changes, let me know so that I can learn it by doing it. Thank you!!
Regards,
Dr Nidhi
bonus points for that 
have lots of confusion in my mind untill it gets clear, I will be restless only
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