The ultimate lesson is Let Go of all the resentments and hatreds to move lighter
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Very concise and well written. I wonder if this is the way I should draft my sessions too (once I have conducted them lol). Will ask Dr. Venu.
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Same thought here. I remember Dr. Venu saying to present the cases concisely. May be this is the way it can be done.
Very well said. As @venu said in https://pastliferegression.in/t/amarantos-boundary-framework/ about the right hat we need to wear for a specific moment, parents should understand when to exit from over caring and excess love for their children.
Happy to know the client was able to understand the hatred coming from past life and acted accordingly 
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thank you GEETHA JI 
The opening line itself made me pause.
“Excess of anything turns poisonous…”
What I found particularly striking in this case was that the client was not describing a lack of love from her mother, but an excess of care that had become suffocating for her. That distinction made me reflect on how the same behavior can be experienced very differently depending on the emotional needs of the person receiving it.
The regression experience of the two sisters was also very powerful for me. The repeated feeling of being stuck, unable to have her own space, and carrying resentment for a very long time seemed to create a strong emotional parallel with what she was experiencing in her present life.
The line that stayed with me most was:
“I am happy she is dead.”
It is such a strong statement, but what came immediately underneath it was not simply hatred. It was relief, freedom and the feeling that a burden had finally been removed. That made me reflect on how sometimes what appears as hatred may also contain a very deep unmet need for autonomy and emotional space.
I also found the forgiveness process interesting. It apparently took considerable time, rather than happening instantly. The later message from the client, describing a changed relationship with her mother, was a very beautiful outcome to read.
As someone who is still learning, my biggest takeaway from this case is to look beyond the surface emotion. “I hate my mother” may be the expression we hear first, but there can be many layers underneath it—love, hurt, fear, dependence, resentment, and the need to be oneself.
This case reminded me that sometimes healing may begin when we stop judging the emotion and become curious about what that emotion is trying to communicate.
Thank you for sharing this case. It gave me quite a lot to reflect on.
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sounded like a difficult case. Kudos to you
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