Fear of Abandonment

Client name:Meera

Age:29

Gender:Female

Hypnosis score:7

VAK:744

Eye Roll:1

Pain level:8

Session:20th August 2024.

1st session 5 Hours.

History : Meera had a protected childhood. Meera is the first girl child in a joint family of 12 members hence was very pampered and showered with love. Her mother and father had a love marriage. Mother belonged to affluent family hence did not do much work at home and only helped in cooking for the family with other members of the joint family. She did not take active part in raising Meera hence she felt disconnected and didn’t have any bond with her mother. Her father would care for the kids and spent more time with them. Meera has weak immunity and would fall sick very frequently. Meera first experienced a feeling of betrayal and abandonment when her younger sister was born 3 years later. Since all the attention was shifted from her to her younger sister, she felt lost, Betrayed and abandoned by her parents and rest of the family. When she was 11 her father met with accident and her family was asked to move out of the joint family, they faced financial troubles and her mother was forced to work and she was to take care of her siblings (Herself and two of her sisters). All this while she felt more and more distance from her family and was immersing herself in studies and television. She would watch a lot of Korean series and started seeking love and connection outside her home. She started her first relationship at 22 but soon found out he was double timing her and she broke up with him. Her feeling of loneliness and abandonment increased. She got into second relationship after a year’s time that person also used her as rebound, she was completely devasted post this and decided to focus only on her studies as her self-worth was at the lowest. Post two years she met Mihir who was kind to her and would take care of all her needs. She moved in with him for she liked his caring nature and felt safe and loved with him. She is not willing to commit to him completely since she is unsure of the relationship. She is scared of losing him in case she commits completely.

Theme: Fear of being Abandoned

Did her induction using Dave Elman. Took her to garden of peace. We walked through her current life happy memories and invitro experience. She felt safe and loved in her mother’s womb. Once she was delivered she had a feeling that she did not belong here.

Using effect bridge she was transported to her past life

T:Can you let me know what do you see

C:I see a lonely girl outside a hut on the other side of the mountain. She is all alone while there are other villagers on the other side of the mountain.

T:Can you help me with what are you wearing

C:I am wearing a red colour outfit with no footwear. I am young girl but all alone feeling scared but fending for myself. My parents left me here since I look different from my tribe and was very fair and they have brownish skin tone I am not welcome in the tribe. My parents were to choose to leave me here alone or to be boycotted by the villagers. They choose to leave me alone here. My mother would come once in a while to take care of me.

C: Father is current life father but cannot recognize mother.

T: Move ahead to any significant event in this lifetime.

C: I am collecting lotus flower from the lake near my home. There is someone inside my home I hear the sound of utensils. I am 20 years old my father has expired during this time and my mother has come to stay with me she is taking care of me. I feel safe with her.

T: Can we move to next significant event

C: I am around 30 years my mother is taking me by force to the village and reassuring me that it’s safe to be around people and no one will harm me. I am reluctant. I can see a man looking at me my mother is taking me to him and telling me it’s safe. I don’t feel comfortable and want to go back

T: Can you recognize the man as anyone from this life

C: Yes, he looks like Mihir of current life. Once I move in with his family, I feel I belong there. He has a big family. My husband and I don’t make an effort to understand each other we don’t communicate much. I don’t have children in this lifetime apart from my husband I feel loved and cared by all.

T: Is there any other significant event in this lifetime

C: No.

T: We will move to the last moments of this life.

C: I am 69-year-old and I have only my husband around me and I feel sad and lonely.

T: Can you float above your body and let me know what you experience

C: Yes. I see a golden light. I feel safe here

T: Any message the masters have for you

C: Grow stronger, believe in yourself be happy.

T: would you like to spend more time with masters or come back

C: I would like to come back

I slowly get her back to the garden and back to the present. Client is relaxed and bit sleepy. There is no reduction in the pain level it remains at 7.

We schedule a second session for her a week later.

Second session:

Dave Elman and progressive regression done to guide her to past life

T: Let me know the visions that you can see

C.I see a village. There is a water body close by.

T: Can you recognize which place it is

C: It is some place in the west in India. I am collecting vegetables along with my mother and father.

T: let me know of any significant event of this lifetime

C: There is Festival going on. Its new year celebration. Everyone is together. We all are singing songs. It’s nice. I am meeting someone special today. He is interested in me and constantly looking at me. He is trying to have a conversation with me. I am not opening up to him I feel very nervous. He said he wants to take me out. My parents will not allow. He said he will come and visit once again I said okay. I am smiling he smiles and leaves.

T: Tell me about your parents.

C: My father is very conservative and doesn’t like it when women communicate with male apart from himself. He has problems with my way of dressing and keeps reprimanding my mother since I am flamboyant and mingle with other people. I am between 20-24 and getting a lot of attention. I am not happy with my father’s thought process and disobey my mother and him and follow my heart stating times have changed and people are more open and friendly now. Mother does her best to take care of home but father doesn’t appreciate the same.

T: Lets move to the next significant event of this life whenever you are ready.

C: It’s a new house there are two kids. I am the mom. I am Cooking. They are just asking for food I am trying to prepare the food. Same guy I met is my husband.

T: How is your relationship with husband.

C: He is caring. We love each other a lot he helps around the house. We have a happy family together.

T: Move on to next significant event.

C: We are 50 years old and celebrating our anniversary. My husband expresses his gratitude for having me in his life and how lucky he is to have found someone like me to share life with him. I am very happy and feel loved and cherished.

T: Whenever you are ready you can move to the next significant event in this life.

C: My husband is not well he is admitted to the hospital. He is about to leave his mortal body. (Client gets emotional and starts crying at this moment). He is holding my hand and expressing his love and saying he is glad he got to share his life with me. He is asking me to take care of myself. The kids have not come they have moved out of town and it’s only the client and her husband now. (She is scared and feels very lonely. Her husband is her current life father.)

T: Let’s move on to another significant event.

C: My children’s both of them daughters have abandoned me. I am in an ashram for old people. I feel very lonely and sad here. Slowly I move on with life and learn craft and start using the skill. I bond well with other elderly people in the Ashram. Soon I start making money out of my craft and teach the skill to other women also. I actively reach out to women who have been abused or abandoned by her family. I meet Erika here who has been abused by her husband emotionally and physically and abandoned. We share a great bond and she supports and take care of me like my daughter. We spend many happy moments together. We are doing well financially I branch out and start our own ashram which helps more women. Knowing my success my children come back to me.I tell them that I do forgive them but they have no place in my life and whatever I have belongs to Erika

T: Let’s move to the next significant event of your life whenever you are ready.

C: Erkia is crying she is not able to say anything to me she is trying to say how she is feeling how she wants to take me out show the love and respect she has for me. I told her you do not need to explain how you treated me have explains. Everything I am giving you everything you have to take care of everything. Always be happy.

T: Let move on to the last moments of this life.

T: When you are ready let’s move on to the next significant event of this life time.

C: I am 78 years old and on my death bed. Erika and many other ladies are present and they are praying for my Soul. Erkia is crying she is not able to say anything to me she is trying to say how she is feeling how she wants to take me out show the love and respect she has for me.I told her you do not need to explain how you treated me have explains. Everything I am giving you.You have to take care of everything. Always be happy.

T: Float above your body and let me know about your experience

C: I see myself floating and approaching Buddha. I feel safe and loved. I seek out if there is any message for me. The master is asking me to help people when they are in need. I can be myself. You came alone in this life you live alone in this life be truthful be helpful. Be encouraging.

T: whenever you are ready, we can come back to the present.

C: yes, I want to come back.

Using the effect bridge got her back to Garden of Peace. From there through the tunnel guided her to the present moment. The client was smiling post the session and expressed she felt happy. She carried forward the feeling of being loved and valued in her past life. She also could relate with the message from the master to be herself and not depend on others for her happiness. She felt reassured and felt she needs to share her life with her partner and not see him as someone responsible for her happiness she can be happy by being her true self. She also could relate to the message of helping others and said she felt happy and amazed as to how these messages were so relevant to her.

Pain level post session:4

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