Fear of being alone in Darkness

Client name : Akshay (My son), Gender : Male, Age: 13 Hypnotisability Score: 8/10, V – 2, A – 2, K -4), Eye Roll -2.

Akshay, my son who is studying in Class 9 was my first client. He is afraid of Darkness and realised that it is a little high for him at this age. I explained to him about the PLRT process briefly and began with the Dave Elman induction, followed by progressive relaxation, the garden of peace, and a staircase connected to the past life.

T: This is what the therapist said.

C: This is what the client said.

T: Look at your feet, what kind of footwear you are wearing? Are you able to see your feet?

IMR

T: What kind of footwear you are wearing? A Shoe or a Sandal or a bare foot?

C: Shoe.

T: What kind of shoe is that?

C: Brown-coloured Leather Shoe.

T: Look at your body, your hands, how do you look like? What kind of clothes you are wearing?

C: Shirt with Jacket, A Classic Pant.

T: Is it a daytime or a nighttime?

C: Daytime.

T: Are you inside or outside?

C: Outside.

T: Are you able to identify the date?

C: 1937

T: Very good, what are you seeing?

T: Are you able to identify the place? What kind of people are around you?

C: Silence.

T: Can you see anybody else around you?

C: IMR (Yes)

T: Talk to them and find out about the place. You might get an answer, are you able to talk to them?

C: IMR (Yes)

C: I am in a Graveyard.

T: ok. How do you feel?

C: Feeling Sad.

T: Why did you choose this event? Why are you feeling sad?

C: My mother in that life was buried.

T: ok, stay here for some time and let me know when you are ready to move further.

C: IMR

T: you can move further in this lifetime for the next significant event. If there is any anxiety or Stress you can just float above and observe.

T: Are you ready to move further?

C: IMR (Yes)

T: Where are you?

C: I am in a Market.

T: Who are all there around you?

C: Many people.

T: Can you identify anybody from this lifetime?

C: IMR (No)

T: If you wish would go to the end of that lifetime.

C: IMR

T: Where are you now?

C: I am lying down in a bed alone.

T: How old are you?

C: 80 Years with Wrinkled Skins.

T: What is happening?

C: I am suffocating (able to see his Feeling of suffocation)

T: ok Relax, Float above and review this lifetime and see what you have learnt.

C: Silence.

T: Move further. Where are you?

C: I am in the Staircase in front of the door.

T: open the door and let me know what you see.

C: Seeing Two lanes, one with the life explored and another one.

T: Do you wish to explore any other significant moment in this (Currently Explored) lifetime?

C: IMR

T: Where are you now?

C: In front of a Pond, standing on a bridge. Taking a picture of Lotus.

T: How do you feel?

C: Feeling Happy.

T: ok Move Backwards. Where are you?

C: I am in a Pond, Observing Lotus. I am a Turtle. (Moved to another life)

T: How are you feeling?

C: Feeling Happy, it is the same pond on which I was taking pictures in another life as a human.

T: Very Good, are you able to see anyone around you?

C: No, I am alone.

T: ok Move forward, what are you doing?

C: I am observing Lotus, and someone shot me (He used to have pain in the same place (where he was Shot) every morning as soon as he woke up, After a week I checked with him regarding the pain. He said, I completely forgot about that and there is no more pain).

T: Are you able to identify who shot you?

C: No, he is wearing a black Kerchief on his face.

T: ok Move Further. Where are you?

C: I am in the Staircase.

T: ok Open the door and let me know what you are seeing.

C: Seeing three lanes. One was the human life (Previously Explored), 2nd Lane was the Turtle Life (Previously Explored) and there is a new third lane.

T: ok Go ahead and choose a moment that you want to explore.

C: This is Present life (3rd Lane).

T: ok What are you seeing?

C: I am opening my eyes; I am Just born. I see you and Amma smiling at me. You are wearing a White Shirt and Amma is wearing a yellow Churidhar.

T: Very Good, how are you feeling?

C: Happy moment.

T: You wish to stay here for some more time? Otherwise, move forward. Where are you now? What are you seeing?

C: I am studying in 1st Standard, and a boy threw a pencil box at my head, I am bleeding, and my shirt is filled with blood. My Sister was walking in the School Corridor, and my friend called her (This incident happened when he was in his 1stGrade and when we further checked with his sister, she confirmed exactly this is what happened and became curious to get her regressed)

T: ok Go ahead.

C: She immediately took me to the Sickbay. She was crying when by saw me. More than the injury, seeing my sister crying Hurt me the most.

T: ok move forward. Do you wish to explore further?

C: IMR (No)

Slowly brought him back to the Garden, relaxed for some time and brought him to his awareness.

Day 2:

Session 2:

Began with the Dave Elman induction, followed by progressive relaxation, the garden of peace, and through staircase connected to the past life.

Life :3

T: where are you now?

C: I am in a thatched hut, I am poor.

T: How old are you? Are you a boy or a girl in this life?

C: I am a girl around 7-8 years in this life.

T: ok what is happening?

C: My mom is feeding me food and when I ask her what about food for herself so says no problem you eat.

T: ok what do you feel now?

C: I have a feeling of guilt knowing that she didn’t have anything to eat.

T: ok move forward

C: Outside my mother is quarrelling with someone

T: Move forward and see with whom is she fighting.

C: My drunk father is fighting with my mom, I went to stop them, but my father Pushed me hard and I fell.

T: Ok just float above and see what happens.

c: I am unconscious my mom cries louder and my father checks for my breath and drops me saying she is dead. My mother cries louder and my father pacifies her and says don’t worry we can have another one. (This word hurts him a lot and he asks how a father can say this. Tears coming out of his eyes)

T: ok Just Relax and keep Breathing. Do you wish to stay here?

C: let’s continue

T: ok very good move further

C: I am on that same staircase and there is another new lane

Life: 4

T: choose a moment that you want to explore. Where are you now?

C: I am inside my house. My house is the biggest in that area. And I am a girl

T: is there anyone around you?

C: IMR (yes)

T: who are they?

C: My parents

T: are you able to identify them in your present life?

C: no

T: ok what is the significance of this event?

C: I am 13 years and I have never been allowed to go out of my house even once I am sad watching the other kids playing

T: ok relax go further.

C: I am 18 and I have never left my house even once

T: ok what is happening?

C: My parents are fighting

T: Relax. Move further.

C: Now I am 45 years old my father died, and my mom is sick asking my Mom at least now can I go out for a Job? My mother allowed. I am going to a factory and doing a Tailoring job.

T: how are you feeling?

C: happy and sad

T: ok go further

C: I am coming home and lying in my bed then it’s become dark.

T: Go back and see what exactly happens.

C: A group of people started to suffocate me with the pillow. They are wearing black masks they also killed my mother (He also feels the suffocation in the present moment).

T: Just relax, it is not happening to you now. You are just experiencing it. Keep Breathing. How are you feeling now?

C: I am better now.

T: ok. Where are you now?

C: I am on the same staircase but there is one more path

T: choose a significant moment in that lifetime

Life: 5

T: where are you now?

C: I am on the road playing with my friends

T: how are you feeling?

C: happy moment

T: do you wish to stay here for some time?

C: no

T: ok move further

C: I am riding my cycle with my friends, and I fell I got hurt (he suddenly started touching his hand for a recent wound and said it looked the same way)

T: what are you doing?

C: Silence. Then said I recently got hurt and the hurt in that lifetime is in the same pattern as the hurt I have gotten in this lifetime. This kind of hurt normally heals in a day or two, but this has been there for two weeks. (When I checked with him later, He said it got healed in 3 days after the session).

T: very good. Move further

C: I am very old around 70 years old, lying in my bed alone. Suddenly woke up from my sleep feeling pain in my chest. Floating above, it has become dark.

T: ok move forward. Do you wish to explore further?

C: IMR (No)

Slowly brought him back to the Garden, relaxed for some time and brought him to his awareness.

Day 3:

Session 3:

Began with the Dave Elman induction, followed by progressive relaxation, the garden of peace, through Affect Bridge – Fear Connected.

T: Where are you now?

C: There is a new Lane which looks very dark and cursed.

T: ok Go and explore it.

C: I am getting nearer but unable to go closer as some other energy pushing me away.

T: Ok Relax.

C: Silence for some time.

T: If you don’t want to explore it’s okay we can go move further.

C: Wait, Getting closer now. I can see my mom from the Thatched hut life. But her whole body is pure white, her hair is black, and her eyes are also fully white. Feeling afraid to see her now.

T: Ok will be able to talk to her.

C: My mom says you are the reason for my death.

T: Ask for forgiveness and you also forgive her.

C: I forgave her, but she is not forgiving me.

T: ok stay there for some time.

C: A few moments later, the dark lane suddenly disappears.

T: ok how are you feeling now?

C: I feel better about the feeling of darkness.

T: Good, Do you want to explore anything further?

C: I would like to meet my mother in the Thatched hut life.

T: ok go ahead. Where are you now?

C: Talking to my mother, she says the only reason I thought bad about you is because in the village we lived in they give a certain amount of money if you have children and due to this your father forced me to have another child due to which I have committed Suicide.

C: She says if you think bad about someone or hold grudges towards someone a cursed spirit will go and settle in the other person’s lane to whom you are thinking, she also asked sorry if her cursed spirit spoke anything bad to me or hurt.

T: Ok Relax (able to see Tears coming out).

T: ok go ahead. What are you seeing?

C: I am seeing a light.

T: What does it look like? How do you feel by seeing that light?

C: looks like a ball. Feeling peaceful.

T: Would you like to stay here for some time?

C: Yes.

T: let me know when you are done and want to move further.

C: A Master emerges from that Light.

T: How does he look like?

C: White Robe with long white Beard and Compassionate Eyes.

C: Says, that when you think bad of someone, a small bit of cursed energy will go and settle in another person’s lane. The longer you grudge, the stronger the cursed energy gets. Your mother only thought about the event for a split second, and you saw how powerful it was, so don’t think bad of a person and always learn to forgive people. Forgiving is the Way of Life.

T: Is there any message for me from the Master?

C: Master asked you to Forgive everyone, and he went into a state of Meditation.

T: ok move forward. Do you wish to explore further?

C: IMR (No)

T: Slowly brought him back to the Garden, relaxed for some time and brought back to his awareness 3…2…

C: One moment the master is here.

T: Where is he?

C: Sitting near you.

C: He says, you need to forgive Mohan (One of my relatives with whom I have developed enormous Aversion.) Your Hatred towards him is stopping your Spiritual Growth. Master went back to his meditation state.

T: With tears coming out from my eyes ended the session.

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Wow. Just wow! I just had goosebumps reading this. The message got from the master is simply superb. It was like re-reading the “Many lives many masters”. I hope you called up Mohan and sorted out. If not yet done, now would be the ideal time to do the same. Very good session that too coming from your son! Keep up the good work :heart:

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Amazing session Ananth…you have mentioned how pain was gone, wound was healed and fear of darkness was soothed, in the days following the session.

What is even more beautiful is the way holding grudges and its impact was explained…meant something for me as a readet too. Forgiveness is the greatest message and it brings peace.

The message to you about Mohan was the catalyst to your spiritual growth…even that insight was provided.

Great work done.

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So beautifully executed Ananth… taking your son through the process must have been emotional and yet you were so calm and composed

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Dear Ananth,
Such a smooth and the most simplest way to conduct a PLR… excellent work Ananth…and now I want to take a moment to express my congratulations to you for this incredible PLR session you conducted for your son… Your warmth, and genuine care …created a very safe and supportive environment that allowed him to explore his experiences so deeply…
I am overwhelmed…

The insights your son gained will have a profound impact on him and that too from such early age…God bless him and you stay positive…, your dedication and support to help him navigate is going to be very transformative for your son…I am so proud of you and send my blessings to you for your are so good in whatever you decide to do…stay blessed Ananth

Waiting for your NXT session with your daughter

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Hi @Ananth
Here are some suggestions:-

Instead of why question please try to paraphrase the sentence in a better way as why question can evoke conscious mind…

Try to avoid saying Okay relax… instead please show empathetic towards the situation… (I did same mistake in my first case, so no worries we all learn slowly)

Try asking them If they can look into the eyes and identify people’s from this lifetime… it may help…

Good way of stress management…

Avoid leading… let it come from the client…
According to me the emotion is left unattended here, what is the reason she told the client this sentence? Why she felt like this ?..

Wow what a powerful message coming from master via your kid …

Overall the session was awesome… you navigated the client very well at each step… I feel to give you some suggestions so that you can improve your skills in next session… I am not a pro to give you suggestion from my experience. Whatever I told it was from the reading learning from multiple case stories…
All the best for further journey…

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@Ananth you are having a gala time with your son… wonderful!! :sweat_smile:

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