Vitals: Alias: Vin; Gender: Male; Age range: 30-34; HS: 8/10; ERT: 3/4; Dominant sense: Visual; Breathing: Normal; Disposition: Introvert; Location: My studio
Session durations: Session 1: 60 minutes; Session 2: 100 minutes; Session 3: 70 minutes; Session 4: 150 minutes
PI: Guilt and helplessness
Theme: guilt and helplessness
Pain Before: 8/10 Pain After: 0/10
VAK: 8 4 3
CS: The client is a young man who is in a good position. He stays away from the family after the death of his father. He stays with his partner while his mother stays with his sister. He always felt guilty about not being there for mother emotionally. Even when the father passed away, he did not really have any emotions and that made him feel helpless, and he was guilty about it. He felt that he was emotionally unavailable. He did not know how to overcome that, and that made him feel helpless. Whenever his mother was unwell, he helped her financially, but he wasn’t there physically with her. That made him feel guilty.
Trigger: He wasn’t able to take care of his own mom. He always felt guilty and helpless about it
ET: None apparent
HMs: Trip with Friends four years back. I travel to Tirupati And Vellore when I was 12 years old, that was my solo trip. Seventh standard swimming. I got ready for photo shoot when I was two years old. My mom got me ready And took me to the studio.
Flashes / KMF / CF:
I am in town or a village I see a wooden compound I’m standing on sand in normal clothes I’m six or seven year old I had my dinner in a wooden bowl and I’m waiting for my parents.
(The above conversation happened after the client was in trance. I have summarized it into few lines)
PL1: The client starts crying And moving
T: What’s happening?
C: There is flood and my house is gone
T: I understand that your House is gone.What happens next?
C: I lost my parents(Crying)
I’m hugging a tree tightly.
(After a while)
There is water everywhere.
T: it’s just an experience from the past. please float above and watch what happens next
(stress management)
C: I don’t have left hand
I’m dead
T: what happened to you after this experience
C: i’m floating above
PL2:
PL3:
PD:
LBL:
CO: We can’t predict nature
I don’t want to feel helplessness. I’m just a child. Sometimes there are bigger things from our course. (Exact words of client)
Res: I don’t want to feel guilty.
Time came that’s why he(father)expired. My sister needs my mom’s help. That’s why she is staying there.
That’s not in my hand (exact words of client)
PHS:
Outcome: I spoke to him almost a month later about how he was feeling. He said he wasn’t feeling guilty anymore and it was easy for him to behave normally with mother. The pain level was Zero. And he was really happy about it.
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