Name: Flair
Age : 59
Gender: F
Hypnosis score: 8/10
Eye Roll: 3/4
VAK: 5/5/5
Pain level before session: 5
Pain level after session: 0
Theme: Awareness and ownership
Flair was born in a small village in Belgium. Her childhood was wonderful. She had many cousins, friends, and sisters, and they always had fun together. Her house stood right next to her cousins’ house, separated only by a partition, so she played with them every day. Flair had a big, loving family.
Her family consisted of five brothers, five sisters, and her mother. Her father passed away when she was just one year old, so she has no memories or photographs of him, photography was not common at that time. Her siblings and mother raised her with love and care. Her third sister, younger brother, and mother supported Flair financially, paying for her education and always looking after her. Flair never met her grandparents while growing up.
Two of her sisters have since passed away. One died a few years ago, and the other passed away while Flair was living in Oman. She wasn’t very close to her at that time because she had been away for a long period. That sister faced financial struggles, so Flair, along with her mother, brother, and another sister, helped raise her children.
Her house was small but filled with happiness. They all lived together, sat on the floor in the hall, giggled every night, and lived without tension. Her mother was deeply respected in their village, like a queen.
Flair enjoyed school and was especially good at mathematics. She had many friends. She studied in a convent school, which was a good experience. Later, she pursued a Bachelor of Commerce degree and graduated successfully. Alongside her studies, she took stitching, embroidery, and computer classes, which kept her busy and engaged. Her childhood was peaceful and joyful, without trauma.
In 1994, she got married. Flair’s husband, who was also her boss at work, began calling her “Flair” instead of her full name, Flairnisini. She has used that name ever since.
She married in the Netherlands and later moved to Oman, the UK, and Paris. Her daughter was born in 1997 and her son in 1999. Life in Paris was challenging at first. Her husband traveled frequently to America and Canada, leaving her alone with two small children in a large house, in a country where she didn’t speak the language. She felt lonely and frightened at night, but after a year, things improved and she made good friends.
Unfortunately, after returning to the UK, life took a downturn. Her husband lost his job, and they had to sell two houses and a property in Belgium to support their children’s education. She kept one apartment in Belgium. By 2012, her financial situation worsened further, and in 2018, she returned to Belgium. During these difficult times, her siblings and in-laws supported them, just as they had supported her throughout her life.
Flair has faced health challenges. For years, she suffered from severe migraines, diarrhea, vomiting, and numbness. After two years of homeopathic treatment, her migraines became manageable and now last only about 30 minutes.
In 2014, she lost her mother while she was in the UK. Her mother had diabetes but did not suffer much until her final three months. Her passing was very painful for Flair. When she feels stressed, she talks to her sister, who always gives her good advice. Sometimes she also speaks to her brother or a close friend. Yoga helps her relax.
Currently, she is facing some health issues with her lungs, possibly related to COVID. The CT scan shows some concerns, though she doesn’t feel major symptoms.
She is loyal to her friends and family, caring, strong, willed, and she stands up for what is right. Others see her as strong and confident. Yet, she knows her weaknesses: she gets anxious, panics, and overthinks when she is stressed, especially about money, children, or the house. These struggles are tied to financial stress.
Since her father died when she was a baby, the men in her life, her brother and later her husband have always been linked to financial security.
She has a lifelong fear of heights and closed spaces. She panics in lifts and feels suffocated. A visit to Disneyland was especially frightening for her.
Flair is considering therapy now because of ongoing financial difficulties and her husband’s job situation. She has supported him through these challenges, and together they continue to manage.
Her happy childhood gave her love and security, and though adulthood brought challenges, she has faced them with strength
(Completed stages 1 to 9)
Session 2:
Conducted on 7th October , 3 hours.
Dave Elman, Progressive Relaxation, Garden, Childhood memory, Tunnel of light, Affect bridge, Past life.
The client sees herself as a child, about eight or nine years old. She is wearing a black dress and flip-flops, sitting on the floor in a classroom, working on her times tables. The light is soft, and everything feels so real. She can see the teacher, hear the rustling of papers, and the laughter of children.
Then she moves into another childhood memory. She is outside, playing with her brothers and sisters. They are laughing and running around. She sees her mother sitting on the balcony, watching them. Her mother is smiling, she looks proud, peaceful, and happy. The client feels loved.
After that, she enters a past life. She is standing outside and feels a heaviness in her body. She is wearing leggings. The air feels different. She doesn’t know where she is, but she feels strong and grounded. She is simply standing there, observing the world around her.
Then she experiences another past life. She is standing again, wearing jeans and a top. There is a playground nearby. It resembles a house she once had in the UK. She was living in Europe.
Next, she enters yet another past life. She is young, and a woman with darker skin is giving her lunch. The woman isn’t frightening, there is a sense of calm. She cannot tell where this is taking place.
After that, I counted the client back.
Client Report: During the session, she felt a heavy sensation and a bad headache. After I counted her back, the headache was gone. However, she reported that later that night, while sleeping, she experienced the same bad headache again.
Session 3
Conducted on 9th of October 3 hours.
Dave Elman, Progressive Relaxation, Garden, Tunnel of light, Affect bridge, Past life.
The client felt protective, very calm, and very good. She noticed she was wearing flip-flops and a pretty black dress. She saw herself as an older woman, around 30 years old, with a darker complexion. She was surrounded by buildings. It was daytime and cold. She was simply standing in a grassy playground.
Next Significant Event: She noticed a man as she was walking but couldn’t recognize him. He was trying to say something. He said, “Sorry,” and apologized for not being there. The client responded, “It’s okay.” He blessed her and said he was there to protect her. He had darker skin and felt like a good man. He was looking after her. At that moment, the client was around 13 or 14 years old. She didn’t know who he was but thought he might be her father. They were outside in the garden. Eventually, the man wanted to leave but didn’t say where he was going. He left without explanation, having come only to protect her.
Same Lifetime : Younger Age: She was outside, around 10 or 11 years old, playing with her cousins and sister using stones. She recognized this scene from her current lifetime. She wasn’t wearing shoes and felt very happy. She was wearing a dress.
Return to Earlier Scene: I guided the client back to the moment when she was small and a dark-skinned woman was giving her food. She experienced being alone with this woman, without her parents present. She sensed that the woman could be her aunt. She was wearing a blue dress.
Progression in That Lifetime: She moved forward in that lifetime and found herself in a field, watering it with her brother and sister. She said walking was hard. When asked why, she said she was walking home. She had one brother and one sister, both of whom she recognized from her current lifetime. The younger brother is the second youngest in this lifetime, and the younger sister is also the second youngest. She was the middle child.
Later, she recognized her mother from that lifetime as the same mother she has now, but she couldn’t recognize her father. At home, she saw herself studying. She was living in India, though she didn’t know exactly where.
Final Moment in That Lifetime: She felt happy, though her body felt heavy. She didn’t realize she had died. She had been sick. The emotions she experienced were crying and sadness, which she felt in her forehead. I used reframing and a breathing technique, and she felt much better afterward. She died alone but peacefully, moving into the light.
Lesson Learned in That Lifetime: Be kind
Session 4
Conducted on 15th of october, 3 hours.
Dave elman, Progressive Relaxation, Garden, Tunnel of light, Affect bridge, Past life
T: Therapist
C: Client
Therapist: What clothes are you wearing?
Client: Jeans and a T-shirt.
Therapist: What shoes are you wearing?
Client: Tennis shoes.
Therapist: What age are you?
Client: 16 or 17.
Therapist: Where are you?
Client: I am in an open space. It’s nice and quiet. There are people around. It’s daytime. It’s not cold, but it feels pleasant.
Therapist: okay good.
Client: Now I am feeling sad. I’m feeling it around my eyes.
Therapist: Sorry to hear that you are feeling sad.
Client: I feel pretty heavy.
Therapist: I then counted her back to the source of the sadness. She found herself in a dark place and couldn’t see anything. I instructed her to light a light, and the room gradually became brighter. She saw a bed and a chair. The temperature was neutral, not cold or hot. She noticed someone was there: a tall man with black hair, wearing a shirt and trousers, standing behind her. She couldn’t see his face. Client felt good.
Next Lifetime
Therapist: Where are you?
Client: I’m eating and sitting on the ground.
Therapist: Describe the ground.
Client: There are raw stones.
Therapist: How old are you?
Client: 14. years
Therapist: Which continent are you in?
Client: I don’t know. I am picking stones. And after that I am walking toward a forest. Therapist: What else are you aware around you?
Client: I see some people but I don’t recognize them, they are just walking. I continue to walk in the forest. I am feeling nice, happy, and refreshed.
I counted the client forward in that lifetime to the moment when she felt pressure in her head and eyes.
Client: I’m feeling much better. I’m eating. But I feel cold.
Therapist: Feel that coldness in your body. Where exactly do you feel it?
Client: In my hands and chest.
Therapist: Feel it ten times more in your body. Ask that coldness where it’s coming from. Which experience is it connected to?
Client: I’m sitting on the ground, and I’m tired.
Therapist: Tired of what?
Client: I’m in a small house. I don’t see anybody.
I then guided the client to the last day of that lifetime.
Client: There was a man present. I’m floating into the light. I feel relief.
Therapist: Relief from what?
Client: From leaving.
Therapist: What lesson have you learned from that lifetime?
Client: Be happy.
I performed a reframing process into the positive and guided the client through releasing all negative cellular memories related to her migraine. We then integrated new, positive cellular memories. The client felt relaxed afterward and then i counted her back.
Session 5
October 29, 3hours
Dave elman, Progressive Relaxation, Garden, Tunnel of light, Affect bridge, Past life.
Flair saw her spirit guides. She saw angels who were huge and benevolent.
Therapist: What year is it?
Client: It is 1924.
Therapist: Allow yourself to describe what you see.
Client: I see a door in blue color.
Therapist: Allow yourself to open the door. What do you see?
Client: I see darkness. I am afraid.
Therapist: Remember you are safe. Just take a deep breath.
Client: There is nobody.
Therapist: How old are you now?
Client: I am an 8–9 year old girl.
Therapist: What clothes are you wearing on your body?
Client: I am wearing greenish sandals and a plain white frock. My skin tone is brown.
Therapist: What else are you aware of around you?
Client: I am standing and looking somewhere. I am feeling pain in my neck.
Therapist: So sorry you having pain. Allow yourself to move forward when you are older in this life. What is happening?
Client: I am a 15-year-old girl. I have slight pain in my neck.
Therapist: So sorry to hear you are having neck pain. What are you aware of? Describe your surroundings.
Client: I see a bright sunny day. I don’t know the name of the place, clay soil, garden, grasses, trees.
Therapist: Where do you go now?
Client: I see a house far away.
Therapist: Allow yourself to go near the house.
Client: It is a small bungalow. It is my house. There is a simple lobby there. There is much light, very bright. I see a spot of light on the wall.
Therapist: Are you alone or with someone?
Client: My mom is in the house. She is in the kitchen. I see her from far.
Therapist: Do you still have neck pain?
Client: No, I don’t have neck pain anymore. It was related to overthinking. But I have heaviness in my head.
Therapist: Are you alright? Just remember, this was your past, so all these discomforts were there at that time.
Client: It has gone.
Therapist: Excellent! Allow yourself to move ahead with the count from 1 to 3, to the moment just before your heart stops beating for the last time. (Counted the client.) How old are you?
Client: I am 80 years old.
Therapist: What is your name in that lifetime?
Client: Yan.
Therapist: What year is it?
Client: It is 1940.
Therapist: What are you dying of?
Client: I am dying due to neck pain.
Therapist: Who is there with you?
Client: My husband.
Therapist: What are feeling at the moment of death?
Client: I am feeling relaxed.
Therapist: What is the lesson you learned in that lifetime for this lifetime?
Client: Enjoy, and adjust. Nobody is responsible for my pain.
I counted the client back and guided her that she doesn’t need to carry the pain anymore.(Therapist: Allow yourself to leave that body behind. Leave every sensation and every symptom of illness in that body. Leave it behind you. That is no longer your body. Leave the pain where it belongs. Leave the sensations of every condition in that body as you separate from it. That is no longer your body.)
Completed Stages: 10 to 15 successfully. The client was feeling relaxed and happy, with no pain. She was very satisfied with the sessions and is also following chakra healing.
Recommendation: Continue meditation regularly and prayers.
Integration and closure:
Throughout these sessions, the client accessed significant pastlife memories and emotional experiences. She encountered moments of sadness, heaviness, and physical discomfort, which were processed and reframed into positive insights. By allowing herself to fully experience these emotions, she was able to release negative cellular memories connected to migraines and integrate new, positive ones.
In her lifetimes, the client consistently discovered themes of relief, protection, and resilience. She met figures who offered guidance and support, including spirit guides and benevolent presences. She recognized lessons such as:
· Be happy
· Enjoy and adjust
· Nobody is responsible for my pain
These lessons were integrated into her current awareness, reinforcing her ability to let go of burdens and embrace joy, balance, and self-responsibility.
The client reported feeling relaxed, happy, and free of pain at the conclusion of the sessions. She expressed satisfaction with the process and continues to complement her healing journey with chakra work, meditation, and prayer.