What a beautiful beginning, Thirupurasundari ![]()
Sometimes the session doesn’t go where we plan… it goes where the nervous system most desperately needs to go into rest…and when safety is finally felt, the body chose the deepest healing response it knows viz…
" switch off thinking and repair."
And see the proof not from her words, but from the daughter’s observation
“Aunty what did you do to my mother?”
Children, especially neurodivergent children, respond immediately to the caregiver’s nervous system.
You didn’t work on the child yet… but the ecosystem already shifted.
The blankness she described is also very important. Many clients get scared of this state, but actually it is the mind moving from over-processing to regulation.
Not emptiness… but relief from cognitive noise.
Stopping at happy memories…is a perfect pacing ![]()
You have basically opened the door to therapy through the mother’s regulation. Most probably the daughter’s behavioural intensity will reduce just because the emotional field at home has softened.
Beautiful holding of space:ok_hand:![]()
Waiting to see how this unfolds when you resume after her guests leave.
This case already looks like it will heal through the mother first and the child later will follow naturally.