Dear Master Venu and my senior fellow mates,
I need your valuable suggestion. I tried finding clients within my friends and family circle. Out of 9 people, I regressed, the case study could be completed only with 3. I am very grateful that I could complete the 3 studies by god’s grace. The fourth case was a friendly request and a one session thing, which can be excluded. With the remaining 5 clients I regressed, I am seeing one stubborn pattern which eludes my understanding.
- Case 1- I begged to be my client and he agreed. I gave extended pre-talk, all the emotional stories I had and others had. When I asked what issue we would like to concentrate, the client said he needs clarity about the future. I couldn’t make my client to recollect any happy memories or some past incidents. I took to FLP, it went well. After the session, client said he felt relaxed. Yet, he didn’t want to believe what he saw will happen, just because he saw it. He just brushed off that he could make it true.
- Case 2 - The client again was coerced by me for regression. He met his dead mother and he could get some insights from his mom. Yet again, the client felt that it is something unbelievable and didn’t want to think about it any further.
- Case 3 - The client was coerced by me for regression. He had weight issue. He never gains weight. So, in regression he met his favorite Hanuman Ji and prayed for increasing weight. His weight indeed increased 4 lbs in 2 months, which was a big miracle. But the client didn’t want to acknowledge that to regression.
- Case 4- The client was interested and impressed by my healing journey. So, I did on her. She was my ex-colleague who is older than me. 2 sessions were very great. For 3 session, she didn’t come and she didn’t want any insights from me or she just want to show her vulnerability before me.
- Case 5- The client came on his own. But he withheld the issues he wanted to resolve and ask for FLP and clarity. But in regression, it was marital issue between his wife due to his illegitimate affairs. Though he didn’t tell me, in subQ revealed. The client didn’t want another session and escaped.
My question is-
What am I doing wrong here?
People wanted some miracle to happen after the session to believe it. I am not a miracle worker. I take them to a place where they get clarity for their problem, on which they need to take action. But they don’t want that.
It is like my teenage old son comes to me asking for a lotion for his pimple problem. I said, wash your face atleast twice, as your skin is oily. He doesn’t wants to do that. Instead he blames me that I can’t buy a lotion for him which will cure his pimple. He is 16 and his immaturity, I can understand.
But people are also like that. They want 4 hours to be in their trance and all their problems sorted out, without lifting their hand. if I can’t do that, then my technique or the premise I work on is bogus.
These are all my very close circle, who knew me. Yet, I find them considering me a ‘low profile’. Mismatching my academic credentials.
I am astounded by them. I know, you would have faced my struggles. It’s nothing new. Guide us.
Also, because of this pressure, I enrolled for Certification in Clinical Hypnotherapist. A certificate won’t change my abilities. Yet, I want to see whether that will ease my path. I sincerely believe, what I have to learn in this aspect Master Venu has taught me. Yet, how did you forge your path?
The question is because my client weren’t ready to take responsibility or the healer is not ready yet?
