Name : Nidhi (name changed)
Gender: Female
Age : 41
Hypnosis score : 9
VAK score : 8,6,8
Eye roll score : 3
Pain level :8
Client is my friend who she is married and having 2 teen age children a boy (16 yrs) and a girl (13 Yrs). Having happy married life, loving husband and parents. Client concern was about her daughter. They were so close and friendly till past 3 years ago but lately she felt her daughter is getting distance from her, which effected client’s mental peace a lot. So, she wants to know any past life connection to this particular issue getting distanced from her own child. But her relationship with his son is good and intact, also relationship between both children also good. Client’s concern seemed more genuine and she was emotional explaining her issue and about her dauther.
14th August 2023
Stage 1 to 9 done : ( Stage 1 : Therapist Introduction / Stage 2 : Observation & Non verbal / Stage 3 : Pre Talk / Stage 4: Client Agreement / Stage 5 : Client Assessment / Stage 7 : Relaxing Cognitive Fatigue / Stage 8 : Theam Finalization / Stage 9 : Check List )
Stage 10 & 11 : Induction & Virtualization
Before starting the prayer, we concluded the IMR and asked her comfort level of the cushion, AC temperature and the lighting of the hotel room. She said its fine.
We done a small prayer and I started with Dave Elman then progressive relaxation, affect bride…
Me : can you able see the bridge?
Vaani : “yes”
Me : “ can you walk on the bridge?
Vaani : “yes”
Me : pls go ahead and see any happy memories you can able to visit…
AFTER A MINUTE…
Me : What are you seeing?
Vaani : “ I can see a big open space… a lawn ”.
Me : can you see anyone?
Vaani: “ yes someone is coming towards me.
Me: can you able to recognize who is that?
Vaani: “Yes… My Mother”…
Me: ok. Who else is there?
Vaani: “ My children”.
Me: how old are they.
Vaani : “ they are very small .”
Me : Do you want to spend some time with them?
Vaani: “ Yes…”
Me: go ahead and be there with them how much ever time you want to spend…
Vaani : “my daughter is hugging me, She is happy”.
TEARS ROLLING FROM HER YES AND SMILING…
Vaani: But I don’t know… why she is not talking to me and hugging me nowadays…
SHE STARTED CRYING, HAPPY FACE SUDDENLY CHANGED. SHE STARTED SHIVERING. TEARS ROLLING FROM HER YES. SHAKING HER HEAD LEFT AND RIGHT.
Me: be calm… Relax… Breath… Inhale…. Exhale…
AFTER COACHING THE BREATHING. SHE BECAME LITTLE BETTER
Me: can you start walk litter further?
Vaani: “ yes.”…
AFTER COUPLE OF SECONDS…
Me: are you seeing anything?
Vaani: “Yes, full of snow here…
Me: Can you see anyone around?
Vaani: “Yes, I could someone far away climbing the snow”
Me: Do you recognise that person?
Vaani: “No”
Me: ok. Can you see anything else around?
Vaani: “Yes, there is a house I can see”
Me: ok. Can you go there?
THERE ARE FEW SECONDS OF SILENCE
Vaani: “I can see some big FIGURE on the snow mountain”
Me: what is that?
HER EYEBROWS fawning and eyes are rolling UP AND DOWN, SHE IS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT I BELIEVE
Vaani: “It looks like Shiva”
Me: who is shiva?
Vaani: “Lord Shiva with big hair tie on the head”
HER FACE BECOMING DOUBTFUL AND THEN BECOMING BRIGHT AND BECOME HAPPY…
Me: If you want be there… enjoy the moment.
COUPLE OF MINUTES OF SILENCE. HER FACE BECOME CALM…
Me: do you wanna ask him anything?
Vaani: “don’t know what to ask”
Me: do you wanna ask about your daughter?
Vaani: “Correct… Yes”
Me: You may ask him why your daughter is getting distance from you.
Vanni : Yes I want to.
HER FACE BECOME BRIGHT AND SHE IS TRYING SOMETHING…
After few second…
Me: Did you ask him?
Vanni : “If you understand your daughter”
“She will understand you”
“You are not alone”
“I am with you… will take care of everything…
“Don’t Worry”
“You are my child”
AFTER SAYING THIS SHE STARTED SMILING AND TEARS ROLLED FROM HER EYES…
Me: why are you saying this?
Vanni : “Not me… He said this”…
Stage 12 & 13 & 14 : Identification & Integration & Closure
Me: Lord shiva?
Vanni : “Yes”.
Me: can you able to understand what he said?
Vanni : “Yes. I have to understand my daughter”.
Me: Do you wanna ask him about any other things?
Vanni : “No. He is not here”.
Me: Can you go to any significant past life to find out more?
Vanni : "No”…
Me: Why ? you don’t want to?
Vanni : "No, I got my answer”
Me: Are you sure you don’t want to go to your past to find the answer?
Vanni : “No. Answer is not in the past”.
Me: ok. Now you got your answer and will you try to understand your daughter?
Vanni : “Yes”.
Me: Can we thank Lord shiva for listened your concern and gave the clarity?
Vanni : “Yes”.
Me: Let’s pray to show our gratitude.
Vanni : “ Om Namah Shivaya” Thanks for giving me clarity.
Me: You did it very well, Can we go back to garden?
Vanni : “Yes. I want to”.
I brought her to garden and did EMERGING Counting from 1 to 5 to bring back from trance, gradually to her sense.
Stage 15: Reports & Recommendation
- She understood she has to understand her daughter and give space for her teen age life.
- When option given to proceed further to any significant past life she refused do so, since she felt she got the answer.
Recommendations:
- Asked her to take her daughter for shopping and beauty parlour ( Since her daughter likes it ) and develop a friendly vibes.
- Recommended mother to be supportive in daughters likes and dislikes as a friend rather than being a controlling strict mother.
25th Auguest 2023
Review
- She informed she is giving more time to be with her daughter and taking her out.
- Letting her do what she likes to do, So its resulting in little openness from her daughter.
- She said she is working on herself to get complete love and affection from daughter like earlier.
