Pursuit of Unconditional Love
Profile:
Name - Priya**
Age – 17 years
Focus score - 9/10
Eye roll score - 3/4
V/A/K - 6/4/5
Primary sense- kinesthetic
Secondary sense- visual
Pain level (before session) -10
Pain level (after session)- 0
Day 1. Session 1. (May 5th 2026; 10 :00 am - 1 pm)
Therapist Intro to History Taking.
Priya has just completed her pre-university board exams and stands at a major crossroads in her life. While she grows up in a generally happy and well-provided-for family; her home is often a landscape of underlying tension, with frequent conflicts erupting among the elders.
Family Dynamics & Home Life
Priya lives in a multigenerational household alongside her parents, her grandparents, and a younger brother who is currently reaching high school.
- Her Father: A dentist running his own clinic, he is the anchor of the family—a cool-headed, capable man who deeply cares for his wife, children, and aging parents.
- Her Mother: A dedicated government lecturer, her demanding career leaves her chronically busy, stressed, and exhausted. She always is in pursuit of making time for her family, but mostly fails.
- Her Grandparents: Though old and fragile, they share a beautiful, affectionate bond with Priya, who cherishes the time she spends with them.
Priya herself is a deeply kind-hearted, empathetic, and helpful girl, both at home and within her academic circles. Because of her mother’s hectic schedule, Priya responsibly learned to manage routine household chores and cooking from a young age. She has a natural warmth, loves playing with and caring for small children, and makes friends easily due to her trusting nature. However, this innocence has often been a double-edged sword; people frequently mistake her kindness for weakness, manipulating or taken advantage of her helpful disposition. Recognizing this vulnerability, her protective mother refuses to send her to a distant city for higher education, preferring that she join a local college instead.
The Core challenges faced by Priya
Priya is currently navigating heavy emotional burdens that weigh deeply on her mind:
1. Academic Disappointment & Pressure
Priya is filled with anxiety because her exam scores do not reflect her immense hard work and expectations. This academic struggle is tied to a historical pattern that began in her childhood:
- The Early Years: Up until the 4th standard, her mother was physically present, and Priya excelled academically under her direct care.
- The Estrangement The turning point came when her mother was transferred to a distant town. Left in the care of her father and grandparents, Priya deeply missed her mother’s daily presence and affection. The emotional void fractured her focus, causing her concentration to waver and her grades to slip.
- The Middle School Struggles: In a bid to fix this, her parents moved her to a school near her mother’s workplace for the 9th and 10th standards. Sadly, this environment proved harsh; she faced a hostile teacher who constantly scolded and demeaned her, further bruising her confidence.
2. Family Conflicts & Collateral Damage
The frequent arguments between her parents and grandparents often spill over, and Priya routinely finds herself becoming the unintended target of their accumulated frustration. Whenever she steps in as a peacemaker to calm the elders down, her efforts backfire, only worsening the situation and leaving her feeling helpless. she has got suicidal thoughts as well..
3. Friendship, Betrayal, and Heartbreak
Priya’s trusting nature has made her path to finding true friendship incredibly painful. In the past, she formed numerous friendships that quickly fizzled out, often leaving her feeling excluded and avoided.
Her vulnerability also extended to romance. During the 9th and 10th standards, she entered a relationship with her classmate, Vignesh. It ended in deep hurt when a mutual friend, Rithwik, revealed that Vignesh was manipulating her and secretly maintaining a relationship with another girl in Bangalore. Gaining clarity, Priya bravely chose to distance herself and eventually blocked him completely. Today, she finds solace in a small, trusted circle, counting Poojita and Rithwik as her only true friends.
4. A Complicated Relationship with Her Mother
Priya’s relationship with her mother is a painful paradox of material abundance and emotional starvation. On one hand, her mother loves her deeply, generously buying her gadgets, cozy clothes, and anything she asks ; yet, a profound emotional disconnect remains, overshadowed by bitter memories.
- The Wound of Absence: Priya still carries the childhood trauma of her mother moving away for her work transfer from 4th standard.
- The Fear of Violence: Her mother has physically lashed out at her in anger over poor grades, school complaints, and the relationship with Vignesh—leaving Priya internally terrified
Consequently, Priya’s intense longing for her mother’s unconditional warmth and gentle love remains entirely unfulfilled.
Her Silent Sanctuary
Since she fears judgment and lacks a safe space to voice her pain, Priya has developed a habit of whispering her deepest secrets and heartbreaks to the silent entities around her—the pillars of her house, the walls, the mirror, and her pillow. To her, t hey are the perfect confidants because they simply listen without criticism or condemnation.
Many nights are spent crying silently into her pillow, finding a strange, comforting solace in the way the fabric absorbs her tears, carrying the weight of a grief she cannot share with the world.
Health - 1)unable to sleep due to negative thoughts
2) often gets episodes of breathlessness and palpitation
Frightful experience
Client visited her friends at their hostel that was inside the Milagaris Church premises during evening time and was planning to stay in the hostel for group study. As she was stepping in, she could experience bright light everywhere and se could visualize a tall person standing in front of her. He introduced himself as Edward multiple times. Her friends got confused and concluded that client was over stressed about the examination and sent her back to her home to rest and continue her studies
Theme-a feeling of lack-of-love in mother-daughter’s relationship
Day 1. Session 2. (May 5th 2026, 2:30 to 5:00 pm)**
Relaxing the Cognitive Fatigue, Induction (Dave Elman), Progressive Relaxation, Staircase, Garden (safe place), Happy Memories, Wise being and Ancestral Trauma.
Happy Memories
The client could visit three happy memories :
- she was five year old relived love filled times spent with her mother in a park sitting in a swing .
- Head Mistress when she was in a play school
- Sister Lolita helping her to color drawing
In one of them she even saw when she was 2 years old …her daddy was holding her in his arms and mom is capturing video..
We could not connect to any memories in utero.
“Interaction with Wise Being/Lost loved one”
She saw her current friend Ritesh, he was standing in-front of her. She was guided to interact with him. He asked her to walk with him and also told her that he will help her to improve academically, He also told that she can share any problems with him.
I was amazed to know that we could communicate with an existing person in deep hypnotic state. (i assumed that this may be an higher representation of that person).
From there she was brought back to the garden where she found herself sitting on bench wearing a saree and reading a book titled ‘LOVE IS SHADOW’ and felt that she was a Psychologist; she also could see one of her current life classmate, Niharika coming to her weeping and stated that she was compelled to marry against her wish. Niharika sought Priya’s help to resolve her situation.
I presume that the last visualization is from future, since she is planning a career in Psychology
Processing Ancestral Trauma
She couldn’t experience anything…
Brought the client back to the garden and let her rest. Gave a PHS that she could carry all the messages and happy experiences relived with loved ones and could connect with them anytime in the future.
Brought her back to the awaken state after taking IMR.
Checked her well being and sought as to how was the experience.
Priya was very happy with the experience during the session.
Day 2. Session 1 (May 6th 2026; 11 am - 2 pm)
We recalled last session , Reconsideration of Theme for the session, Relaxing the Cognitive Fatigue, Induction (Dave Elman), Progressive Relaxation, Staircase ,Garden (safe place), Mountain Cliff, Hypnotic Age Regression
T - I am going to count from 1 to 10… allow yourself to imagine/ visualize moving towards the top of the mountain…(1 to 10)… As you stand here on the top of the mountain, allow yourself to feel the ground beneath your feet… Look to the left - right - up - down (EMDR)…
From here, we proceeded with the present life traumas and future worries using the big and small box; took a confirmation if she was successful in throwing the two boxes through IMR.
She was then slowly brought to the garden… She found herself sitting on the bench.
Guided her that she can carry all the good experiences with her and could connect to the same anytime she would like to relive those moments in future.
Brought the client back to the conscious state counting 1 to 5 and checked her well being post session.
Client was very happy and she shed tears of joy.
Day 2. Session 2 (May 6th 2026; 6 pm - 9 pm)
Induction (Dave Elman), Progressive relaxation, Staircase, Garden (safe place), an affect bridge was made using the pain she felt from the void in mother’s love in her current life and she was gently instructed to cross the bridge and go back in time to find the cause of her pain
C-There is a small child standing in front of me
T: Keep breathing deeply and let the breath connect you with the finer details as I count from 1 to 3…1 2 and 3.
ENGRAM
C- child is 3 year old…that’s my daughter Sharada; she is very hungry and keenly looking towards me for food
T- Allow yourself to look at your feet. What comes to your awareness?
C :- Barefoot
T :- Are you a Male or a Female ?
C :- Female
T :- What’s your name ?
C :- Rashmi
T :- Which place could it be, Rashmi?
C :- Udupi
T :- What dress are you wearing, Rashmi?
C :- Salwar kameez
T :- What’s the color of your hair ?
C :- Black
T :- What’s your age ?
C- 28 years..
T :-Having gone back to your past in your Udupi house and being at the dinner, do you want to add anything more to this ?
C :- I don’t have mother in law .
There is father in law, husband’s elder brother, my husband and my child..
T-Look into their eyes and let me know if they connect with anyone in present lifetime.
C- father in law is my Ajja (current life’s father’s father)
Husbands elder brother is my current life dad
Husband is Vignesh
My daughter Sharada is my mother in current life time
T- Allow yourself to go back to your childhood
C- I am in orphanage attached to a church and local people forced me to get married
T- What was your age at your marriage?
C - I was 15 years old
T - How was your early days of marriage?
K.M.F.
C - there was always scarcity of food and lot of fights among family members due to lack of availability of food.
T - Allow yourself to move to the next significant event in that life.
C - My child Sharada is starving from past two days and i am asking my husband to get food.
T - I can empathize with you, allow yourself to experience what happens next.
C - my husband and father-in-law have thrown me out of house along with my daughter
T - I understand your feeling, allow yourself to experience what happens next in Rashmi’s life
C - I went back to the same orphanage seeking shelter. there i met Edward uncle, he arranged my stay
(Since she had mentioned the same name in the history taking, i became inquisitive to dig deeper about Edward )
T - allow yourself to go to the time when you first met Edward, what comes to your awareness?
C - He is the security guard for both Church and Orphanage, he knows about me right from my childhood and has always shown concern about my well being.
Even after i rejoined, Edward uncle has been kind enough to find a job for me. He was a good man
T- Allow yourself to go to the next significant event in Rashmi’s life.
C -With the help of Edward uncle, I was able to find a job in ticketing agency, with this new earning, i was able to send my child to school.
T - Allow yourself to go to the next event
C - My child is in 2nd standard and i am angry since she was refusing to go to school and wanted to play. I hit my child and dragged her to school
T - How are you feeling after hitting your child?
C - I have lot of pressure at my job and was facing shortage of money, hence i took out my anger on the child
T- Allow yourself to go to the next significant event in Rashmi’s life.
C - My child has high fever, Edward uncle took care
T - what happens next ?
C - Sharada finished her board exams and secured 70%. (Priya in her current life also secured same score) . Edward uncle passed away due to age related ailments
T - What happens next?
C- I was finding it difficult to arrange money for Sharada’s education. I was searching for alternate jobs.
I found a job as a cook in Udupi’s restaurant - Sangam Hotel (this is a running institute till date)
My earning has improved a lot, i am now able to fund Sharada’s education and even rented a home for both of us (In current life, this home is now rented by one of Priya’s friend, Poojitha and Priya has frequented to that home ).
T - What happens next in Rashmi’s life
C - i was able to fund Sharada’s education for pre-university, she secured 78%
T - Having gone back to the life of Rashmi and being a cook at the hotel, allow yourself to go to next event of this life-time? what comes to your awareness?
C - Sharada got a MBBS seat in Canada and she wants to go to that country to continue her studies.
But i dont want her to go, since i will be left alone. I am trying to convince her to find a seat here itself. Even after i scolded her and tried to stop her; Sharada moved to Canada and completed her studies, she even gets married there and settles there.
I came to know that Sharada had called my house owner of Udupi and conveyed that she was married and settled in Canada and will not be coming back to Udupi. Sharada has also told to take care of her mother.
T - I am so sorry to know that you have been left alone in Udupi, How are you now feeling Rashmi?
C - I am feeling lonely i also sense a feeling of lack-of-love.
T- How is this feeling affecting you?
C- I am now 85 years old, the home owner is taking care of me, i am regularly facing breathlessness. the sense of loneliness and longing for love is growing day by day. I am missing my daughter a lot.
T - I can understand your pain at this life stage, allow yourself to go to the last moment of this life as Rashmi, what comes to your awareness.
C - Breathlessness increases and i leave my body. I am now floating above my body.
T- What is the last thought during the death?
C - I was eager to meet my daughter, but she never returned
T- What happens after you leave your body as Rashmi?
C - the Home Owner and local people came to get the last glimpse of my body and then they cremated.
T - Any sense of knowing something, after you leave your body as Rashmi?
C - I can see my daughter happy and contended with her life in Canada.
After few years, I sense that Sharada came back to the Udupi home with her little one. She comes to the room where i breathed last; she also sees our old photographs and incessantly weeps.
T - As you leave your body, what is that you are carrying over from this life as Rashmi to the present life as Priya. What comes to your awareness?
C - I was left alone by my family and was always lonely and lacked the love from near and dear ones.
T - I understand your feeling, what is that which is needed to be done or experienced to resolve this feeling of lack-of-love?
C - I can always love myself. Getting love from others is beyond my control I cannot force someone to love me.
T - Carry this wisdom with you into your current life when you come back
T - As you leave this body… you can leave this feeling of loneliness and lack-of-love behind. It has already happened, you don’t have to carry over that feeling into your current life. keep breathing deeply… Relax…
C - I am in the garden, i can see lot of colorful, beautiful flowers, i am going with Krishna.
He is saying that
I have struggled a lot in my previous lives.
He is also blessing me that
I will get a good life.
I can see a beautiful butterfly coming to me, she is an angel, she is taking me through the stars.
There are many bright stars
I am happy
I am blissful
That angel transforms into Radha.
Radha makes me sleep on her lap.
She is caressing my hairs
Radha is saying that
I shouldn’t have hit the small child.
I should work hard for good marks
Don’t by heart, understand and learn
You have good future
Help poor people
God will give you wisdom
Always pray your Kuladevatha and Ishta Devatha
You have good amount of patience
Radha is now gently patting my back.
Radha is now addressing the therapist - thanking the therapist for taking care of her child
(I can see the client smiling throughout this divine experience. i could also sense the blessed feeling)
T - be in her presence for as long as it takes, i am here and let me know, when you are ready to move ahead.
IMR…
T - Allow yourself to bring back all the wisdom and strength that you have experienced and know that you can reconnect with this experience whenever you want to
T - Before i bring you back to the awaken state, i want you to go back to all the younger selves of you as Priya
- to the small child having the feeling of staying away and missing her mother
- to the teenager where Priya who felt mistaken and experienced insult from teachers
- to the adolescent Priya, who experienced a toxic relationship with Vignesh and seriously hit by her mother,
- to the young lady Priya, who has friends who talk bad about her behind her back
To each instance where Priya had felt unloved, take this strength that you gained in this session and share it with your younger versions…
May be before your leave… Allow yourself to give them all a hug of strength through belief in your own self!
Take as long as required… let me know…
IMR…
T - I will now bring you back to the awakened state, by counting from 1 to 5, you may bring back with you all that you have gained and experienced it for life times to come.
Client was awakened and was cheerful and loved and was doing well.
Reports and Recommendations
- Client was recommended to meditate on the experience and learnings received
- Client was recommended to take good rest.
but shockingly not uncommon for many!
and now a polished one too 
congratulations
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