Relieving from Fear of Separation and Painful Injury

Client Details

Ms. Sofia (Name Changed), Software Engineer.
Vitals: Female / 23 yrs / HR score: 9/10 / ERT score: 2/4 / VAK score: 5/8/2
Breathing Pattern: Normal; Dominant sense: Auditory; Secondary sense: Visual

Client History

Sofia is the eldest child in a loving family (Hindu). Her parents, relatives and friends have always been affectionate toward her. She has a younger sister and the two share a strong, supportive bond.

When Sofia was in 10th standard she developed severe head pain and was admitted to hospital. Doctors gave different causes for a sudden blood clot in her head, which was later treated with oral medication. She also experienced seizures during childhood. These medical issues left a deep impression on her. Although she has a stable, good job, Sofia feels struck and believes she is not progressing materially or spiritually. She sometimes has troubling thoughts about being left alone in the world. She wanted to get rid of the above 2 disturbing thoughts in this PLR sessions.

Theme decided: Health issue (Other one was decided to be addressed later)

Pain level: Before sessions 8/10; After PLR session 4 (Session 2 & 3 were happy ones)

Day 1, Session 1 (Sep13, 2025, 10:45 AM to 2:15 PM - 3:30 hrs)

All Amarantos PLR stages, till stage 7 were completed.

Day 1, Session 2 (Sep13, 2025, 4:00 PM – 7:00 PM – 3:00 Hrs) – Happy Moments

Theme finalized for Health issues resolution. Checklist items were discussed. Then, induction done with Progressive Relaxation, taken deep further with Cosmic Awareness (healing light), taken to healing garden through staircase step by step, deepening further levels along the way, and assuring that Sofia can remember everything at this stage.

Guided to go back to the Happy Moments in Sofia’s life: 3 Key moments shared.

Guided to meeting a wise man in the Garden:
Strangely, though she met her current Guru, looks like fear only came. When I enquired about the fear, it’s a fear of separation. Daaji (Her present Spiritual Guide) assured her that he won’t leave her alone and he will be there always with her!!!

Day 2, Session 3 (Sep13, 2025, 11:00 AM to 2:15 PM - 3:15 hrs) – Clearing Past & Future burdens

Session started with a recap of yesterday’s session. Then did Erisonian Induction, Dave Elman deepening, relaxed in the healing garden, taken to cliff to throw all the burdens of the past and future.
To Sofia’s surprise, pushing the future worries were difficult. I asked to get help of someone. She took her guide’s help for that and completed. Her learning is that she unconsciously picks many worries from other’s talk/life, which she would avoid.

Day 2, Session 4 (Sep13, 2025, 4:15 PM – 7:45 PM – 3:30 Hrs)

Session started with Dave Elman, quickly she went into trance, then taken to the Garden of healing, then guided her to the Ancient temple.

First Past life

[Sofia sees a girl of age around 23–25 years…It’s her in past life as a Muslim girl. No SE in this life and Sofia returned to the healing Garden for rest…]

Next Life

… [Taken back to Ancient temple again and this time to a different room]…
[T]: Can you describe what you see…
[C]: (Face changes, breathing faster) A natural calamity is happening in a village… There are huts, primitive ones… People are in a hurry, clueless… trying to figure out what to do…
[T]: This is the past, nothing to worry about. You are safe now. Just watch from above and share the details… What’s your age now? How do you look?
[C]: 15–18 years old… Wearing a full gown-like dress.
[T]: What’s happening there?
[C]: Everybody is trying to vacate the place… (Pause)… My younger sister and I relocate to a wise man’s house. I feel the wise man is Chariji Master(One of her spiritual guide in this life)… Now we have a community.
[T]: Where are your parents? Any idea which year is this?
[C]: I don’t see them… I need to take care of my sister. I lost them when I was 7–8 years old… Met the wise man when I was 17–18 years old after the calamity. Not able to get the year, but could be Jesus’s time…
[T]: How was your childhood?
[C]: Happy, with a lot of laughter… (Pause… face changes to sadness, breathing becomes fast)
[T]: Can you share what’s happening, if you wish?
[C]: The wise man wants to leave the place and travel to other places. I don’t want him to leave… I want to be with him… (Sobbing… tears rolling)
[T]: Ok, Relax… Relax your forehead… Now he is with you. Just look at him fully and share what you hear or see…
[C]: Master is wearing a single robe, carrying a long staff… He is leaving… I’m not travelling with him…
[T]: Do you know his name now?
[C]: (Pause)… No…
[T]: Use all your senses and get this life’s events… You can recall all the events.
[C]: A regular life, nothing special… I often think of the wise old man… I’m a shepherd… doing farming… Everyone is wearing a white robe; I’m also wearing the same.
[T]: Go ahead in time and see until the end of this life… Are there any significant events?
[C]: Standing on a cliff, contemplating my life… (Pause)… Missing the wise old man a lot. There’s some sadness in me…[face changes]
[T]: Understood. What are your thoughts and feelings? How do you see your life?
[C]: I’m the village head, taking care of people and the village. Overall good… (Pause)
[T]: How is your sister now? Are you able to relate her to anyone in your current life?
[C]: She is good… (Pause)… She is my mother now. (Smile in the face :smiling_face:)
[T]: Go to the end of this life and see what happens…
[C]: I am old, coughing a lot… (Pause)… Feeling relieved and happy.
[T]: Where are you now? What do you see or hear?
[C]: I came out of the body and am seeing it from above… I am flying to see the old man…
[Returned to Garden]
[T] Where are you now?
[C]: Seeing Daaji (current Master) in the garden… He is saying it is unnecessary to see the past…
[T]: Accept it and ask him the solution for your health problems…
[C]: I came a long way, I’m tired… (Sobbing, tears coming)… I want to go home… My body feels very old and weak…
[T]: We are here to seek his help. You still have life to live, and you need good health for that… Ask Master for a solution to your health issues… (Long pause)

Another Life

[T]: (Client’s face changes) May I know what’s happening?
[C]: A big valley… I’m coming down…
[T]: Can you share more details about yourself and what’s happening? (Observing increased breathing, face changes)
[C]: I see a big rock… some force is thrown on me… Fell on the rock and hit on my head… Head is bleeding, lying there for some time… (Pause)… A group of people are coming, carrying me… I’m not able to move…
[T]: Can you hear what they are talking? Tell about yourself.
[C]: … They are saying, how I survived… Feeling a bit relieved… Wearing a soldier’s khaki uniform, around 35 years old.
[T]: What’s your name?
[C]: (Pause)… No…
[T]: Can you share more details about the current situation?
[C]: A white cloth is tied on my head… I feel some happiness, even in this condition… (Pause)… Drinking some soup, which makes me feel better… just lying there… (Pause)
[T]: Can you go back in time and see any other significant events?
[C]: I see myself settling there… with two children, a boy and a girl…
… (Pause)…
[T]: What do you see or hear? (Client’s face appears painful, breathing changes)
[C]: I feel I’m being shot in the chest… No energy to get up, fight, or save my life…
[T]: Sorry to hear this. Relax your forehead… This is past, you are safe now. Can you look at yourself and share what you see?
[C]: I’m a soldier, fair skin, wearing a green uniform… I hear lots of gunshots…
[T]: Relax… Relax your forehead. Are you the same soldier who had the head injury? How old are you?
[C]: Not sure… But I feel happy… No more running around… (Pause)
[T]: Where are you now? What do you see?
[C]: … It’s blank… (Pause)… Now, I’m in the garden.

Reconciliation

[T]: Take rest and rejuvenate yourself in the Garden… You are safe and under divine care… Relieve all your pains… While you rest, can you share your thoughts?
[C]: A lot of fighting and physical work as a soldier… In the end, it’s all over… Feeling happy…
[T]: Are you able to relate your current life problems with the lives you have seen?
[C]: (Pause)… Could be… Hitting the rock and body pains from the soldier’s life may be related to the head and body pains I face now… I want to erase everything…
[T]: Take your time, relax, and get healed in this Healing Garden…
[C]: In this life, I want to follow my current wise man, Daaji (current Guru), which I missed in an earlier life… I’m tired of living… I ask him to be with me to complete everything… Daaji is helping me to remove all the residues… (Pause)
[T]: What are you looking for in this life?
[C]: Satisfaction.… I need a satisfaction in this life.
… I want to follow my Guru, Daaji. … I must follow my spiritual calling (Pause, resting…)
[T]: Good. Do what you feel right. Relax and get healed completely… Let me know once you are ready to come out… [Pause]
[C]: Some regret is there… somewhere… It’s painful… I don’t want to go back to the temple—it feels painful and heavy… Still under a lot of fear… I don’t want to come out like this…
[T]: Ok, take the divine help from Daaji… Release the fear and pains… Relax your forehead, relax your entire body… Let me know once you are ready to come out…
[C]: (IMR signal – ready to come out)
(At the count of 1 to 10, giving assurances and bringing awareness back to the present… Sofia is gradually brought back with all the learnings to here and now…)

Integration & Closure

After the fourth session, Sofia entered a very different state of mind. The experience turned out to be far more intense, painful, and emotional than she had anticipated. She even expressed that she did not wish to revisit another past life experience because of the depth of pain she had felt.

During our integration discussion, we reflected on the insights and learnings that emerged. Sofia summarized them beautifully in her own words:

ā€œIn this life, I want to follow my current wise man, Daaji (current Guru), which I missed in an earlier life. I feel tired of living and I ask him to stay with me to help me complete everything. Daaji is helping me to remove all the residues. The pains of being hit on the head and body during the soldier’s life may be connected to the head and body pains I still face now.ā€

I fully acknowledged and validated her reflections. At the same time, I gently suggested that, if she feels ready, she may consider one more session to bring further resolution and healing.

By the end of our discussion, Sofia felt lighter, more comfortable, and her mood shifted positively. She became cheerful again, showing signs of release and relief.

Pain level after the session

4/10 (Session impact with heaviness and a relief is observed).

Key Recommendations

  • Continue regular Heartfulness cleaning and meditation with trainers.
  • With the current understanding, observe the effectiveness of cleaning and meditation.
  • Seek help from your spiritual guide and get rid of any residue is there
  • Share observations after a week. Please plan for one more session for closure.

Report shared with Sofia, a summary of the Sessions and Recommendations via mail.

Feedback from Client after a week

I feel like a fresh piece of paper where I can paint new a future, this feels hopeful and with a new view to life. I have got a fresh awakened perspective of life. This is also has immensely been helpful for my spiritual practice.


Like to seek feedback from a complete closure perspective:
I recommended another session, because of the following statement from client towards the end of the session. ā€œSome regret is there… somewhere… It’s painful… I don’t want to go back to the temple—it feels painful and heavy… Still under a lot of fear… I don’t want to come out like thisā€¦ā€ Though I gave attention and time for healing, felt another session required to get confirmation on whether the healing is complete or not. Looking for your suggestions on how to handle this!!!

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Great start Aru sir. Congrats

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@arumugam.vembu simply beautiful :pray:t2::pray:t2: you are such a kind and caring person. I remembered my session with you :pray:t2::pray:t2: you are always very gentle with your words and approach, client is blessed to have such a nurturing therapist :pray:t2::pray:t2: you guided her very well throughout her PLR journey with careful and gentle framing of questions, I can learn so much from you :pray:t2:

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Thanks a lot for your kind words. After PLRT onsite training, I see myself a long way to go and lot to learn. Happy that I have many encouraging people like you to support.

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It’s soothing to hear this from whom you’re able to help. Thank you for sharing this wonderful experience.

@arumugam.vembu :heart:

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Dear Arumugam,

Very well for conducting the sessions for Sofia and bringing the revelations to her. My learnings are as under for your consideration pl,

Interesting as it gets Auditory !

Very well. 50 % .

Happy for your client’s learnings.

We have only learnt Dave Elman induction in the workshop.

Very well for conducting the Reframing -Past burdens and future worries of present life.

We mean trance.

Didn’t we establish that the client is Auditory.

First let the client experience the emotions, its also strengthens the ANCHORING and the I of IDT. If not able to manage by stress management then next logical step is to suggest them to take the witness point.

First we consider to use present tense as the client is experiencing the emotions as the past life subpersonality.
Secondly, paraphrasing would have been a great tool to apply here in place of CUT AND DRY - What’s happening there?

Well attempted the stress management.

Consider to build upon : What could have been the reason for him to not take you along ?

Lets have a clear destination , either the next significant event or the end of life.

On her own ?? Did we guide her? It was the time for KMF TO CLASSIC.

We do not intend to make this session an experience for the client and would prefer to keep it open ended and let the learnings come auto.

Engram.

Consider : Do you hear them taking a name as they talk about you?

Consider to paraphrase here and guide the client to subsequent events.

In my humble opinion we needed to find the way to anchor in the client and process the case peel by peel.

My sincere prayers for the client’s healing.

Amazing .

In my humble opinion this needs to be processed may be subsequently with clients concurrence.

Your thoughts are on correct lines. May be the session needed more time. I am sure with experience we would see Zero Leftovers in coming days.

My wishes to you

Regards,

Monesh

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Thanks a lot, Akshay. Appreciate your feedback and encouragement.

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ā€˜Isomorphism’ as in this life too the client had issues in head as a child - Headache and blood clot in brain

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Mission accomplished !!
Most satisfying for a PLR Therapist !!

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Thank you very much Sir, for your time and clear suggestions. Definitely I’ll apply these learnings in my next session. Grateful to your help, Sir.

Spelling mistake corrected.

On going back to Garden on the KMF to Classic moment: Client went back to Garden to relax, said the pain is too much and she is not interested on the past. So, I asked to take Master’s guidance for solution. After that she went into past life that is the cause for present life health issues.

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@arumugam.vembu
A beautifully held case, with deep compassion and presence. Really liked the way you skillfully balanced induction, healing garden, and temple work while allowing the client’s spiritual anchor (Guru) to become central in her healing.
Integration of past injuries from her soilder’s life to her current health struggles was very well done.

A small suggestion…
when the client expressed, ā€œI don’t want to come out like this,ā€ an additional inner work (e.g., inviting Guru to dissolve the regret at the temple or symbolically planting the residue in the healing garden) might have given deeper closure.
Also, future pacing to help her visualize living her current life with this ā€œfresh piece of paperā€ feeling, could further anchor the healing…( its solely my understanding )

Overall, a very heart-touching session. Sometimes, as this case shows, the essence of healing lies not in erasing the pain but in reframing it as soulful continuity with guidance. :pray:

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Thank you very much @kobrakulsh. Very valuable suggestions and encouragement. For freshers like me, this means a lot.

I’ll work on implementing your suggestions in the next session, planned in a week time.

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I never thought it as isomorphism.
Thank you for sharing it.

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The session was excellent, and the presence of two Masters added further depth and engagement.

I would appreciate it if you could clarify what the client’s key learning lesson was from her second past life experience. Additionally, after the integration process, the client mentioned that she felt ā€œlike a fresh piece of paper.ā€ In such a case, is it necessary to recommend another session, or should the client be encouraged to remain with this renewed state?

Congratulations once again on successfully completing the first session.

@arumugam.vembu Nice script…well written Sir :hibiscus::+1:

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Thank you, Dr. Gunjan.

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