Spontaneous Emergence post KMF: Finding solutions

A client repeatedly exhibited spontaneous emergence after each KMF. Despite being in a stable trance state, as confirmed by his unawareness of external disturbances such as nearby hammering noise, he consistently stood up immediately after the emergence of an engram. The client reported that the process felt involuntary, describing it as a lack of control over the urge to emerge.
This pattern occurred three times during the same session. It is important to note that the client was adequately relaxed, yet demonstrated this automatic resurfacing without waiting for the therapist’s instructions. Also, guide me to the solution to avoid a situation like this again.

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This is normal my blessed Akshay
Can you share some more details
Like vitals, theme, pain level, what were the flashes

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Hi Akshay,

Welcome to the family.

This can happen sometimes, and I understand how challenging it may feel. Could you share a bit more about what kind of KMFs the client experienced, were they scary, or accompanied by any body sensations? Also, what theme were you working on, and what is the client’s dominant sense? With those details, I will be able to answer you more specifically.

Meanwhile, here are a few things you can try in upcoming sessions:

  1. When the client emerges, first ground yourself as a therapist, take an extra breath and trust yourself.
  2. Reassure the client saying…

It’s completely okay to emerge. You may still remain in the recliner and rest. We can still continue the session. This helps the client to not freak out.

  1. Offer them a bit more relaxation, guide them into gentle breathing, and then you can try again.

Best wishes!!!

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Client Vitals

  • Male, 33 YO
  • VAK: 5/5/5, Responsiveness: 8/10, Eye roll: 2/4, no squint
  • Physical cues: shoulder jerk (unaware), constipation, forehead stress

Theme

  • Confusion in a 9-year relationship (intercaste barrier, parental disapproval)

  • Over-emotional, stuck, loss of purpose, escapism urge

  • The girlfriend wants to wait for him until death, but he wants to get married now

  • Emotional pain 8–9/10

  • Aim (verbatim): Clarity

Session 1

  • KMF1: Client saw himself standing on a marble floor (house, 11–12 PM), wearing a lower/tee. He noticed a young Indian girl (21, pink suit, not the present girlfriend).
  • KMF2: In a trimmed lawn with a fountain, dressed in a royal off-white kurta, dhoti, leather jooti (26 YO male). In front of a white kothi/mahal. An elephant greeted him with its trunk.
  • Significant Moment: Same girl smiling and talking when regressed to a significant event.
  • Closure: Emerged on his own, no discussion, left confused.

Session 2
KMF3

  • Scene 1: 10 YO cute sardar boy, sitting at the riverbank somewhere in Punjab, wearing undergarments, afraid to enter water alone.
  • Scene 2: At dinner in the stone house, mother (yellow salwar suit, ~35YO) called him “Jeete”; other women present in aangan, moving things, no men. A 70 YO baba was eating roti and sabji seated on the floor at dinner time with him.
  • I-utero attempt: Client stood up, reported darkness and a tense environment.

The client didn’t want further sessions.

Asked him to meditate until our next meeting.

IMP QUERY-

I’ve noticed that whenever I conduct a session with someone, I feel very low on energy afterwards, and this state lasts for a couple of days. I’m wondering if this is normal for healers to experience, or if it indicates a medical issue. I had a full body checkup in July, and everything came back normal. Tell me what to do except sleeping more because I’m already getting 10 hours of sleep and feel it’s enough.