* Vitals
M/30’s
Pain level : 8/10
Hypnotisability score: 4/10
V- 3 / A- 10 / K- 2
Eye Roll Test: 1/4
Theme: Primary: Boredom
Secondary: Relationship issues with Father.
Mr.M’s Case Taking summary:
Mr.M is a doctor and a single child with Well educated family background. Since childhood he had a trace of feminine nature and female gait. He feels comfortable only with the presence of women & also likes to dance like a woman. He admires japanese/Chinese traditions and their healing modalities. He is basically a person of laziness, Loves comfort zone, Financially dependent and childish. He had a long term relationship issues with his father who is over-protective and over-caring. Mr.M always gets irritated and angry whenever his father tries to say anything out of over-care. He always feels as if caged emotionally by his over protective and caring parents, especially father. Problems arise in married life also associated with showing unnecessary interest in women & Transgender Women. His wife also feels caged emotionally due to his over-dependent nature. Since 6 years he feels Disgust, loathing, Fatigue, no joy, fear of being alone, hesitation to read, write or work etc.
(This is my first case. I had done this sessions in Malayalam, here is the translated version. The client is very sceptical in nature.)
*First session
Completed 1 to 6 stages.
*Second session
Completed 7 to 9 stages.
IMR, Dave Elman (Sleeping), Progressive Relaxation(Sleeping), Ball of light (Sleeping) So i emerged him after 1/2 an hour.
*Third session
IMR, Dave Elman, Progressive Relaxation, Ball of light, Garden, Happy Moments, staircase, Boat to see the departed ones.
In this session he mostly saw darkness & feels wind, flashes of the garden, boat etc.. he sleeps in between so i emerged him. The second day he feels very tired but also very relaxed.
*Forth Session
IMR, Dave Elman, Progressive Relaxation, Ball of light, Garden,
Happy Moments: only darkness,
Age Regression: unclear flashes & he feels sad that he couldn’t have any happy moments in childhood so I did stress management at this point, he feels calm and started to sleep so i emerged him after 1/2 an hour.
*Fifth Session
IMR, Dave Elman, Progressive Relaxation, Ball of light, Garden.
T: Allow yourself to be in a beautiful garden, with greenery and flowers.
C: (Calm and serene)
T: Towards the end of the garden there is a beautiful cliff with a single large tree, below that there is a Bench.
C: (Started smiling).
T: You may sit on that bench & inhale the calmness and healing energy.
C: (keep on smiling).
T: I would like to know, what you are feeling now?
C: Happiness & peace.
T: Amazing! When ever you need happiness and calmness in your meditation you can be here… As your ‘Happy Space’.
Do you see anybody else, there?
C: I can see somebody coming towards me…(confusion)… face is not clear… Lord Buddha… I am not sure… (Calm).
T: As I count from number 5 to 1, you may find yourself much deeper, calmer and peaceful…
Allow yourself to go back in time where the Boredom comes from.
C: I saw a dark image in front of me and it is tied by a rope(Frightened face).
T: Don’t worry, to see such an image. You may fly over it… (Stress management)
C: Slowly the darkness begins to fade.
T: Good! As I count 5 to 1, Let’s Go back to your ‘happy place’.
C: Starts smiling.
T: Where are you now?
C: Sitting On the bench… below the tree…near the cliff…
T: Wonderful! You may take rest as much you want…
C: After sometime, the client started laughing loudly…
T: Could you share, what’s happening there?
C: I am flying… I am free… I am the happiest person… (With a great smile)
T: Wonderful! Happy for you…
C: (Gets calm after sometime)
T: As I count 5 to 1, Go back in time where the relationship issues with your father starts…
Where are you now?
C: I don’t know… Somebody is standing in a dance costume… On the back, there is a Nataraja statue (shiva)…
T: Could you describe that person?
C: Women… Transgender… I am not sure… She is going to perform…
T: Good! Can you identify the place?
C: Village in North India…
T: What name do they call her?
C: Name with ‘Ch’… not sure…
T: Good! Do you find any other peoples there?
C: (long pause)… A person look like a saint…
T: Could you describe that person?
C: Wearing a saffron colour dress… With turban… My father… He forbids me from studying… I love to study… He does not allow me to study… I am very angry, upset and Sad… (grief).
T: it’s ok, what all things you are seeing, it’s just your past. (stress management), you may float above this.
C: (Calm)
T: As i count 5 to 1 go back to a significant event in that life.
C: I am hiding… I am afraid…
T: Could you describe the place?
C: Don’t know… Pause… Boat…
T: Ok… What you are wearing?
C: Skirt… Top… Shawl on head…
T: Do you find any other things?
C: (long pause)… I am with chippi… she is my male partner (present life girl friend having a bit masculine nature)… We are happy… We are living together… (Long pause)
T: As i count 5 to 1, Go deeper & deeper… let’s go back to the last times of that life…
C: Am old… Died… Floating
T: What is your feeling at this point?
C: Calm… (Long pause)
T: As I count 1 to 5, Let’s Go back to your ‘happy space’. You may take rest for some time…
C: Somebody coming near me… (Long pause)…
T: Could you identify that person?
C: It’s Buddha… No It’s Lord Quan Yin (Bodhisattva Avalokiteshvara)… Formless… Coming near me…
T: Could you able to hear anything, what she is talking to you?
C: No, she blessed me with divine energy and activated my ajna chakra, forehead chakra and entire brain…
T: Wonderful! How do you feel now?
C: Blessed and Greatful…
T: Great! Now, what you feel towards your father?
C: Love!
T: Yes! Love and Forgiveness are the two beautiful things that we can give to the humanity and to our loved ones… & Each time when you get irritated, you can can think about this ‘happy space’, you might feel calm.
Do you have anything more to say?
C: No…
T: Ok, As i count 10 to 1 , take a deep Breath and slowly open your eyes.
Client emerged soo happly, motivated and with full of energy. With full of Gratitude he said, he feels very blessed to see Lord Avalokiteshvara & his heaviness on the head and chest completely gone. He got answers for many of his doubt. Feels very lighter and Wonderful.
Pain level after the session is 0/10.
Ps : I am very amazed to see the gender transition, the past life gender traces seen in present lives of Mr.M (female or transgender in past, male with feminine traces in present) and his girl friend chippy (male in the past, female with masculine traces in present).
After three weeks the client comes to me and said 'what have you done, I am very upset? With a little shivering inside and patience outside I just enquire about the reason. All these years he was just numb without any true emotion or ethics, and he is ok with the financial dependence with his wife and family.
But after the session he got ethical concerns for his each and every actions, feels grateful for his wife and to his father. He doesn’t want to dependent on anybody for the financial needs and he started working hard and walking early morning (he was very lazy to wake up early morning before PLRT).
Reason for the present sadness is, he destroyed many of his years without doing anything. Now he is actively engaged in all responsibilities of his life.
Ps: I wonder healing comes in this way also…
