Well done my beloved Harie,
Good observation of the pattern
Your did well in calibrating the right suggestions, even though you’ve hit a jackpot of having a very visual client.
Good I of IDT and grounding
but avoid using words as “okay” you could have done some stress management and then paraphrased instead. Read more here.
getting to know the social structure of the sub-personality like a pro!
T: Can you tell me who is with you at the dinner table?
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“table” did the client say they were sitting on one?
avoid leading questions.
might have been a bit premature as there could a loss of trance when we try to bring them into the current life’s context. this was a good questions at PD or generally it’d automatically surface.
it’d have been better to empathise here instead of discounting this important feeling and asking them to move to “another significant event” may be making them feel that this wasn’t significant
Remember this is the trapped energy which needs to be transmuted.
good Disidentification.
was a bit leading, it could have been “what comes to your awareness” or “do you feel the presence of anyone else?”
this was like gold came to your hands and we threw it away as ore and hence the word, “I can try!”
We should let everything emerge from within the client, for example here we could have suggested “allowing your sub. con. mind to bring into your aware on what is that you need to experience in order for you to let go of this feeling…”
all in all being your 1st time, you’ve done phenomenally well my beloved Harie, I look forward to your next sessions which overcome some minor issues that you had in this one.