Client Name: Haripriya (Name changed)
Age : 54
Session 1: History
Hypnotisablity Test score: 5/10
Primary Dominant Sense: Kinesthetic
Secondary dominant sense: Visual
Eye Roll test: 1/4
This female client had no one to feel emotionally connected with or emotionally safe and fulfilled. She always wanted perfectionism and wanted things to go as she planned. Faced criticisms from family and others for the same and that she is too straight forward, blunt and aggressive and had no one to understand her. She has always been supporting family members since her birth and after marriage but has not received any emotional support from anyone.
After the history session, we found that she was afraid of loneliness or of having no one for herself and had the fear of being left out or abandoned if she faces failures or experiences lack of perfectionism.
Theme: Abandonment wound or fear of Abandonment
Pain level before the session: 7/10
Session 2:
Guided on Reframing by going through all the painful experiences and throwing the same from the top of the mountain into the sea. (Client felt a big relief)
Proceeded with breathing exercise and progressive relaxation followed by Dave Elman method for deepening.
T: Go to the Happiest moment in childhood
C: Going out with dad.
T: How do you feel?
C: Feeling safe
T: What are you wearing?
C: Can’t see
T: Can you see your feet?
C: Yes, normal slipper, blue color
T: What dress are you wearing?
C: skirt and shirt
T: at what age?
C: 7
T: How does your father feel?
C: normal
T: How is your relationship with him?
C: very good
T: go to the time when you were five years old
C: grandma is sitting with me
T: Where?
C: my home
T: What are you doing?
C: sitting beside her but not feeling comfortable
T: Why are you uncomfortable?
C: I feel she is scolding me
T: Why?
C: don’t know. Seeing her angry face. She is not liking me
T: Why is she not liking you?
C: she is not liking my mother. She is not happy with me
T: why she doesn’t like you?
C: because I am a girl
T: ok. Go to the time when you were 4 years old
C: lying down somewhere. My mom is beside me.
T: How do you feel?
C: neither sad nor happy
T: where are you lying down
C: At home, my dad’s quarters
T: ok. Go to the time when you 3 years old
C: someone is fighting.
T: where?
C: somewhere outside
T: who is fighting?
C: Something is happening outside
T: who are all with you?
C: No one, I am in the crawling stage
T: how old are you?
C: one year
T: Where are the others?
C: can’t see anyone
T: Who are all outside?
C: I can only hear the noise
T: What happened after the fight?
C: can’t see anyone
T: What happened just before the fight?
C: …… (couldn’t see anything)
T: Go to the time when you are 6 months old
C: I am at Grandma’s house. Can see her.
T: What are you doing?
C: I am on the ground and grandma is beside me. She is watching me
T: go to the time when you were one month old
C: can see some images
can see some very bright light
T: how old are you
C: very very small. Less than a year
T : what are you doing?
C: lying down
T: where?
C: some open space
T: who is with you
C: someone is there. Neither mom nor dad
T: who is that person?
C: my elder sister. Wearing skirt and she is grown up. Can see my cousin’s wife
T: Is she in the same place?
C: the entire place is different to me
T: who else is there?
C: no one
T: how do you feel?
C: Nothing
T: go to the time when you were in your mother’s womb
C: yes
T: How does your mother feel?
C: She is sad
T: Why?
C: don’t know
T: How do you feel?
C: neither sad nor happy
T: how many months are you in the womb?
C: 8
T: go to the time before that
C: I can see a railway station. Can’t see known faces
(Silence)
T: Are you there?
C: The place looks very old. It looks like olden days, ancient. I am 4 years old wearing a skirt and top
(Seems to have gone into a past lifetime)
T: Who is with you?
C: I am feeling like I have no one. Like an orphan
T: What are you doing there?
C: just spending time there. It gives me a feeling that I am growing there
T: Is it this lifetime?
C: No, very old times
T: which year?
C: don’t know. But women are like Marathis and men wearing turbans. Can’t see anything else.
T: go to your supper time
C: lying down in a chair at the station. Little dark. Someone has given me something to eat.
T: who gave you to eat?
C: don’t know. have something like a donne
T: what happened after dinner?
C: Can see men in white uniforms and brown boots marching towards the station. They have rifles
T: what happened after that?
C: just staying away and watching
T: what happened after that?
C: nothing. Someone like a giant came and warned me
T: what happened after that?
C: he is asking me to dig a pit and that is my work. Now I am a teenager wearing a half saree
T: where is this happening?
C: In an open space. I am working for him and he gives me food
T: Is this the same lifetime?
C: yes
T: how do you feel?
C: am like a slave
T: where do you live?
C: it is a village.
T: name of place?
C: no idea. Row of houses like huts and only lanterns. No lights. Fully mud
T: go to your supper time
C: It is a mud house and only ladies are there. 3 to 4 ladies lying down with me.
T: Who are they and how are they related to you?
C: not related. We are just together.
T: Are they working with you?
C: May be. We go to work together.
T: Can you see where your parents are in that lifetime?
C: They are not there. All are making fun of me since I am an orphan, and an elderly person is scolding those who make fun
T: do you know that elderly person in this lifetime?
C: no
T: can you go to your birth in that lifetime?
C: delivery is going to happen in a place
T: Who is your mother?
C: can’t see. A lady is helping in a hut
T: Who is the helping lady?
C: an elderly lady
T: Do you know her in this lifetime?
C: No. But a young girl is watching this. That is my elder sister
T: Can you see who your mother is?
C: no
T: go to your birth time
C: Not feeling anything.
T: How does your mom feel?
C: seems she is no more
T: Can you see her face now?
C: some other face keeps showing up. Totally different
T: Who is that someone totally different?
C: a threatening face. She is taking me away from there
T: Why is she taking you away?
C: She is aggressive and maybe because my mom is no more. I am frightened.
T: What happened after that?
C: I can only see me as a teenager now. Am roaming around in an Open space.
T: Where is your father?
C: can see only that group in uniform
T: go to the time when your mom was pregnant in that lifetime
C: Both mom and dad are happy. Dad goes to work in that building where those men in uniforms are working. Never comes back
After that I can only see the same group of men in the station and I am searching for him there.
T: ok. Could you find him
C: no
T: go to the next significant event in that lifetime
C: I am living alone in a house and cooking for myself
T: age
C: I am in my 30s and happy to live alone. Single house for myself. Can see an open space and mountain
T: any relationships?
C: no
T: go to the next significant moment in that lifetime
C: can’t see anything
T: go to your 40s
C: am happy and alone
T: a few years ahead
C: nothing
T: go to your death in that lifetime
C: Feeling I am no more. Can’t see anything. Can see only a bright yellowish light
T: Where is the light coming from?
C: just above in the air
T: go to the time before the yellow light appeared
C: I am kept outside a house and I am feeling very happy after death
T: is it your house?
C: no. Some villager’s house.
T: how did you die?
C: don’t know. But very happy
T: what happened after death? Anyone around?
C: no one.
T: where are you going after leaving the body?
C: I am going into the yellow light with a complete sense of happiness.
T: Can you go back and see when you felt insecure and abandoned in that lifetime?
C: at young age, was searching for father and was fearful as an orphan. After I grew up I separated myself and felt very happy.
T: what could have you done to live a better life?
C: should have had someone. Was so fearful growing up alone. There was fear in everything. Fear of staying in a common place, fear of being alone, having none.
T: what could you have done to overcome that?
C: Could have been courageous. Should have stayed with the lady who took care of me. I shouldn’t have left her. Left her because I was afraid.
She also mentioned that she should have tried to stay with people to feel emotionally safe and connected with.
Guided to release the fears by visualizing the better life in that lifetime as well as the present lifetime that could be achieved through the learning. Completed the session after giving enough time for slow and safe comeback.
Pain level after the session: 2/10
[Further sessions to be scheduled]
