Having problem trusting people

[venu (Dr Venu)]

@Jas18821

I don’t know if I should feel ashamed or proud as I post my first case on this platform.

That’s your true humility speaking my blessed @Jas18821Thanks for taking the time to share this splendid session with us!

@Jas18821

The reason I haven’t posted any case is that I don’t have any. I could give you a list of reasons, but no, I am not going to do that. It’s all because of me.

@Jas18821

One thing for sure, here in Malaysia, people are not that open to the concept of PLRT.

It’s the same across the world Jasmit, even though this belief is prevalent in India, it adds no spiritual value to people’s lives!

Those who are destined,
Those who have blessings of the Masters
Will make their way to a competent, kind-hearted, sincere PLR Therapist like you, be it India or abroad

@Jas18821

So, this client is through Google. Thanks a million, Neha, and not forgetting our beloved Guru, Master Dr. Venu. It’s his vision that has brought us all together today. My utmost gratitude to you.

Thank you Jasmit,

@Jas18821

I don’t know why I am feeling anxious while typing this note, but here it goes…

That’s the true artistic dissatisfaction, which strives for Excellence!

@Jas18821

To my surprise, without any hesitation, she chose 10.

Everybody cries!..

@Jas18821

However, what I sense is that she likes to suppress her emotions with a smile.

that’s the reason and that’s her coping mechanism… repressed pain.

@Jas18821

she has lost trust in people.

that’s the easiest route to take, but it’s down hill!

@Jas18821

She said she has always suppressed her emotions, and this was the first time she was talking about it and had a chance to go within.

This is why the PLR Therapists are God send! The unsung heroes but glorified by the blessed Masters! I can vouch for that

@Jas18821

T: Do you want to be here a while and enjoy the moment?

Brilliant!

@Jas18821

FT started experiencing irritation in her throat and began coughing.

This happens due to the un-acceptance!

@Jas18821

Following our Guru Dr. Venu’s teachings that our clients’ well-being is a priority, I couldn’t let her leave with such heavy emotions. I decided to give her more time to share and talk about what had come to her awareness regarding her mother.

Thank you for following this my blessed Jasmit, the rule of thumb is the client has to leave in a better state of mind!

@Jas18821

T: “Being there as a child, is there anything you would have done differently for the outcome to be different?”

C: “No, I was just a child. I couldn’t do much.”

Phenomenal!

@Jas18821

T: Look at his eye, do you know him from this life.

C: (Pause) no.

The client being K, this could have been "Can you tell me a little more about him… "

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C: Sad.

T: Do you want to continue being here, or we can proceed?

It’s better to confront as what we resit persists… we need to increase the I in IDT with the support to stress management techniques…

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C: Everyone who was in the house early is gone.

T: How does this make you feel?

C: Sad, alone. I am taking a boat somewhere.

here also we missed the opportunity to dwell on this emotion, what gets stored and carried over lifetimes is the emotion… we could have asked more about what is this “sadness” has she felt something of this sort in this lifetime and so on…

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C: To the city, for job.

T: What else comes to your awareness?

Please follow this

Why we should pace instead of asking "Okay, what else?"

Having gone through several transcripts of sessions conducted by my students I thought of sharing this quintessential point. When we start practicing PLRT and our client has elicited a far memory and revealed something on that front. Our next instinct will be to get more details and in this desperation we might end up asking, “what else!” But let’s remember the golden rule for a therapist is, “Utilize everything.” So applying that we can get some momentum by pacing. Let me demonstrate it with…

Wow what a splendid gift other than having conducted the session for her and also sharing this out of the world experience with us @Jas18821! You are just marvellous!
I still remember you having given a treat to your friends when I had shortlisted you to the training program, see how right I was. In Amarantos people come and go, but it the pillars like you that will be here timelessly keeping the flag flying high, guiding others and sharing your learnings! Ever proud of you!