Stage 1-8
Name : Anant
Date : September 28, 2024
Vitals & Dominant Sense : M; 32; VAK – 5/6/4; H – 9/10; Eye roll – 2/4
Pain level: (Therapist forgot to do pain level assessments)
Client History :
Discomforts: Faces discomfort in situations where others take charge regarding his life; regrets not having been presence while grandmother passed away/ feeling helpless in critical situations where he is alone/ feels uncomforted to confront in relationships (friends/co-workers)
History :
Anant (Client) was born in a lower-class family, eldest among two siblings. Has good relationship with both parents. Shifted to maternal uncles place due to monetary issues at home during childhood (was okay shifting thinking he will get a good lifestyle to live in) but faced biasness and some level of sexual abuse as well (was uncomfortable in putting it in words)
Was shifted back to home in higher schooling, where he faced a major blackout one day (was shifted to hospital in emergency) but no reason discovered by doctors. Client remembered this as one critical incident.
Then life moved on, made some good friends and in college, and office spaces but continues to have internal conflicts in maintaining relationship with friends based on values and principles. Had seven-year long relationship but faced major break-up and girl (could not stand up for relationship with family) went ahead with arrange marriage.
Client has fairly well professional life as he is passionate about the cause he is working for, and enjoys working for social causes.
Anant has also survived two heart attacks at very early age, 29 yo, while he was alone in the tier 2 city and had to single handedly manage the entire hospitalisation process (it really pushed him to the edge where now, he doesn’t want to be alone in life). Second, at the age of 31, where he was at a marriage function and had friends around him to take care of. Client thinks it (heart attack) is more of a hereditary issue maybe.
Stage 9-15
Theme : Understanding the blockages in life; Relationship blocks
Session Activities : Visualization, Body Scan, Dave Elman, Age & Past Life Regression
Therapist (T): What comes to your awareness? Are you somewhere?
Anant (A): vegetables and fruits neatly arranged….
T: Where are these fruits arranged?
A: On a cart….
T: Are you their near fruits?
A: Yes, standing next to the kart….
T: What are you wearing?
A: White pants……
T: What is your name?
A: Don’t know….
T: How old are you?
A: Around 29…30……
T: What do you see around you?
A: Beach and water….
T: What are you doing next to the fruit kart?.. Are you buying or selling the fruits?
A: Buying …… I come here regularly….
T: What else comes to your awareness?.. Any feeling or emotion about the beach or this day
A: Happy…… I have come for a walk
T: Are you married? … what emotions do you feel?
A: Yes…. (Silence)
T: Any thought or any other emotion comes to your awareness?
A: (Silence)
------------------------ (Progressed to another critical life event)--------------------------
T: What do you see around you?
A: Street and a house….
T: Is this your house?
A: Yes
T: Who all are there in the house?
A: A woman and a kid…
T: Is this woman and kid related to you?
A: I don’t know…. Maybe……
T: This is your house, is the women your mother or wife?..
A: Maybe…. I cant see her…. I cant see inside the house……
T: Try focusing on what comes to your awareness…. mother or wife or could be house help?
A: Wife……She is my wife
T: Anyone related from current life?..How does the houses around look like? (Combined questions)
A: No…/ …Settled town…… But the houses are small houses
T: Can you identify the place or country?
A: Maybe India…… Looks very Indian
T: Which part of India?
A: Maybe Andhra….
T: Okay, around what time would it be? Recent, or old times?
A: Recent…. Maybe around 100 years ago….
T: What about this day, on this street, is coming to your awareness? Do you feel something?
A: No…… It’s a regular day…… (Long pause)…. Nothing
------------------------(Progressed to another critical event)----------------------------
A: I see fields…trees…coconut or areca trees…lot of greenery….am in a car…. alone in the car…very old car……going to my village from college….am around 21-23 yo
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above)
T: Why are you going to village?
A: Don’t know…. regular visit… I visit weekly….
T: How are you feeling here?
A: Very nice and peace…. I like travelling…. Going home…. Having nice feeling
T: Anything else that comes to your awareness from the day?
A: No…. Just nice field…. Nice travel
T: You can be in this time space and enjoy the space
A: Calm and peaceful breathing continued…….
……(Progressed to last moments in current life to finalise the correlation of visiting this lifetime)……….
A: I am in a house…. With many people…. Wife…… with son and daughter…… and kids… grand-daughter…. It’s my house…. I am around 60 yo
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above)
T: What are you doing? And what comes to your awareness from this day?
A: Nothing…. Am just their…. Enjoying everyone’s presence…… It’s a good day…. Everyone is here
T: Do you recognise anyone from current life?
A: No…… But kid…. Grand-daughter looks very similar to my daughter (from that lifetime itself) …. Same face…. Both are very similar…. I like my daughter a lot…. Happy family…. Am happy with this life…. Everyone is nice…. I lived a nice life
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above)
T: You can be in this space and enjoy the presence of happy family and a satisfied life that you lived
A: Again, calm and peaceful breathing continued…….
……………………. (Progressed to visit another life time to identify life blockages) …………………….
A: Am seeing two scenes…. A football scene and a police camp…. I don’t know how to choose one of them…. Unable to choose
T: You will know which one to choose….
(After giving a few minutes gap)
A: No, unable to choose
T: Okay, shall we choose police camp? …. (I employed a choice based question to help client)
A: NO… (Sharp No)
T: Shall we then choose football scene?
A: Yes
T: What do you see in a football scene?
A: We are playing…. But am angry… We are loosing…. Team doesn’t take game seriously…… I am frustrated on friends and team…… they don’t have passion…. It’s a college match…. I am 21 yo
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above)
T: What place is it?.. What is critical for you today?
A: I don’t know…. I am just frustrated on these people…. They have to take this seriously…. With passion
T: Anything else that is important today here?
A:…. (Pause)…. Nothing……
………………………(Progressed to another critical event)…………………………………
T: Lets go to your childhood to know about this lifetime… 3…2…1
A: I am in my home…. In the hall…… waiting for food…. At the dining table…. My mother is cooking food…… I am 7 yo…. My sister is also their…… She is younger…… About 3-4 yo…… Father is standing behind…… A little far away…. Cant see him…. He is tall …. Good looking…. He does some bank type of job…… we live in a decent house…. Seems like India…. Some city in the northern part of the country
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above)
T: How do you feel in the house?
A: Nothing…. Its good…. Family is good…. I am waiting to have food…. And go out and play
T: What do you like eating?
A: Briyani…. But mother is cooking something else…. Not biryani
(Long pauses… and no critical relevant event)
……………………………(Progressed to another critical event)……………………………
A: Am in a traffic…… A lot of traffic jam…… No one is moving…. Its irritating me… Am very angry with everyone…. Feel like hitting them…… (After a long pause) …. Still in the traffic
Am going to office…. Am getting very late for office…… Am around 36/37 yo
(After a pause)
I have reached office…. It’s a huge building…. Like a bank or finance firm…… Am inside the building…… Some of the colleagues are my friends from college…. I still don’t like them…. They don’t work passionately…… Do unnecessary time pass
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above) And (Passion at work/in life was identified as an important value to the client and self-righteousness as well)
T: Do you want to go to another time in this lifetime to understand the blockage further?
A: Yes
……………………………………(Progressed to another critical event)……………………………………
A: Am in a jungle…. It’s morning time…. Am alone here…. My friends left me…. Am same age
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above)
T: Why are you alone? …. Why did your friends leave?
A: I don’t know…. I don’t like them….
T: Do you know where is this place?
A: Yes, it’s a hilly place…. We friends come here many times…… Its 3-4 hrs away from the city…. Now am just alone here (Long pause)
T: You don’t like them because of office issues and issues that persisted in college?
A: Yes….
T: Are you still unmarried?
A: Yes
(Seemed like we had visited many scenes to understand blockages in life and even relationships)
T: Let’s go to last moments in life to understand the lessons of this life time related to life blocks and relationships blocks and what is needed to be learnt…. 3…2…1
A: Am on the bed…. Around 65 yo…. Alone in the house…. Parents passed away long back…. Only have a house help to support me…. Office friends have arranged for this house help…. But am alone no one is their… not a good feeling… am all alone… parents passed away… sister is also not here… no one
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above)
(Pause)
Am out now
T: Are you out of the body?.. Where are you?
A: Yes…. Out… In the room
T: What are the lessons of this lifetime for you?
A: I need not be alone in life…… Can be with friends and family….
T: And maybe accept them…. Maybe so that you can accept yourself too in the process
A: Yeah … (Pause)… Be with them as they are…. I was alone but I should not have been….
T: What can be done differently?
A: Be with people …. Friends…. Understand… (Long Pause)
T: And… Are you still here…Where are you now?
A: Its white…. Nothing is there…… I feel am a light…… (Pause)….
T: See if you feel awareness of someone…. Your soul guide or masters
A: Feel like am in a room…. White room…. As if am sitting on something…. No one is here… But someone is pushing me down from the shoulders I guess…. Don’t want to go…. But am pushed down
(Combined a few Therapist/Client question answers above)
T: Are you being pushed to another life?
A: Maybe… Yeah
(Sensed lot of discomfort in the body… restlessness)
T: Do you want to stay here for some time or you want to come back? …. How are you feeling?
A: Yes…. Body is paining
Slowly brought back to the peace of paradise…. Relaxed for a bit and brought back to awareness
Post Session Review:
Client felt at peace during and after the process. Even though the body was getting quite stiff and paining towards the end of the session. Client felt surrounded with calmness and peace. And initially had no words to express for the experience. He said it felt like a very grounding journey, crossed spaces. We took little silent time before doing post session integration.
Integration:
In the first lifetime, the client visited and realised the importance of family, relations, and the satisfaction of being in a content family as well as content life, having balance in life (Anant was really happy to see himself as a handsome man, with choice of smart clothes he wore – the memory was in the form of still photos of the life scene, with colors. He was really happy to have a daughter he said, loved having a full family, and was quite satisfied with the life he created for himself), while the second lifetime was visited to realise the blocks such as judging others with critical value-based judgements and inability to practice acceptance, and not being able to co-exist with others as they are. Always wanting friends and colleagues to meet the self-proclaimed standards set by the client in that lifetime (which is also a case in current life, given client works for social cause and has similar issues related to value-based judgement for friends and co-workers was discussed and Anant said he needs to let go of such judgements and be in healthy relationships), some level of self-righteousness at display, and kept isolating self from others. Needed acceptance, accepting everyone with their flaws, with their good and the bad.
Anant mentioned the aha-moment was to receive guidance from higher self towards the end of life.
(Discussion around realisations – everything revolves around impermanence – from both lifetimes, hence, its important to be in the now, and balanced in all situations. Client was elated with discussion around, how being in acceptance mode and in the now, open doors to various possibilities in future)
